Mark552010 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 We met in class, we are both going back to school to change careers. She has given me great advice regarding graduate school options, and other friendly things like that. That's normal. We had no class projects or anything like that. However, although we have only known each other for a month, she gives me a hug every time we meet, and today kissed me on the cheek. I sent her a flirty/cheesy text last night and she replied, "are you trying to woo me? " She has even paid for both our meals when we went out to lunch together. Is she just really friendly, or is there more here? Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 What part of married is confusing you. Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 We met in class, we are both going back to school to change careers. She has given me great advice regarding graduate school options, and other friendly things like that. That's normal. We had no class projects or anything like that. However, although we have only known each other for a month, she gives me a hug every time we meet, and today kissed me on the cheek. I sent her a flirty/cheesy text last night and she replied, "are you trying to woo me? " She has even paid for both our meals when we went out to lunch together. Is she just really friendly, or is there more here? Danger Will Robinson! Link to comment
Mark552010 Posted September 3, 2014 Author Share Posted September 3, 2014 What part of married is confusing you. i think SHE is the one confused Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Are you asking if you should give her the cold shoulder, or asking if you should proceed? Link to comment
Fudgie Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Why would you want to be with some tramp who dangles herself in front of other men and hugs/kisses them/takes them out when she has a husband at home? Talk about low hanging fruit! Yuck. Link to comment
Snny Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 You cannot control the actions of others. The only person you are in charge of is yourself. And now that she's accusing you of "wooing" her is a clear sign to stay away and drop the friendship. That is a statement to be taken seriously, and that this "friendship" has finally crossed the line. Find and stick with girls who are SINGLE. You don't want to be the a-hole who's responsible of destroying a marriage. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 I sent her a flirty/cheesy text last night Why did you do that? Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 i think SHE is the one confused No. She knows exactly what she is doing. She baited the hook...and you bit. Sorry Charlie. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 Is she just really friendly, or is there more here? More as in, you would accept the role of being the "other man?" Is that the best you can do? Link to comment
Sportster2005 Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 We met in class, we are both going back to school to change careers. She has given me great advice regarding graduate school options, and other friendly things like that. That's normal. We had no class projects or anything like that. However, although we have only known each other for a month, she gives me a hug every time we meet, and today kissed me on the cheek. I sent her a flirty/cheesy text last night and she replied, "are you trying to woo me? " She has even paid for both our meals when we went out to lunch together. Is she just really friendly, or is there more here? No one knows but her. If I had to guess she's on the make. What to do about it depends on where your moral compass is pointed. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 I sent her a flirty/cheesy text last night ^ That right there is where YOU went wrong. You are fully aware that she is married, yet YOU go ahead and encourage her flirting by flirting right back at her by sending her flirty text messages. STOP sending her messages. STOP flirting with her. STOP messing with someone who you KNOW is married. She may not respect her husband, or her marriage and has little or no self-respect, but YOU should show HER that you respect her relationship by walking away from all of this. Do YOU have self-respect? Link to comment
MikNomis Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Question is what should you do, answer is leave it she's married. Link to comment
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