Nightdriver Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I wasn't sure where to put this thread, but chose this section because it'd likely be the most awkward if realized. Have you ever been perusing these threads and wonder, "imagine if the ex I'm talking about reconciling with, bashing or moving on without was here too?" I mean, this site isn't that difficult to find if you simply google any questions regarding relationships that you may have. I guess the same would apply for dating questions on this site. (full disclosure: I have done a search on screen names that I thought the ex might use in the community section, happily with no "positives," though my screen name here is nothing like other forums I use, so who knows) Link to comment
kz91 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 More than once but I very much doubt it. Link to comment
Lambert Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I have but I doubt it. This is ways too much self reflection for his *******. Lol Link to comment
randy1789 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 yea, I have also wondered what if he googles something similar to one of my posts and happens to find one of my forums. BUT he doesn't really do that. I was always the one interested in getting answers to my questions through google. He isn't very smart. So I doubt he would take the time to read and find facts about anything other than video games and.... sports? lol Link to comment
Supersarahp Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I have considered it - I don't think it would be his 'thing' though - he'd rather bury his head in the sand and hide his feelings. Jeez though - with all the stuff I have put on here I hope he isn't! Link to comment
823freckles Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I have but I doubt it. This is ways too much self reflection for his *******. Lol I think you hit the nail on the head. That, or at least I think he doesn't really care about me anymore. But yeah, I have wondered. Sometimes I see a thread and have a moment of panic. If he is...hi, I guess. Haha. Link to comment
Iamstruggling Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I wish my ex used this site I would have liked have known that she did care for me a little But I doubt it, she had another guy to heal her I got you guys Link to comment
Marshall11 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I can't remember the name of the thread but there was a thread in getting back together where a guy was posting and his ex saw the post and replied. They worked it out and got back together. Really sorry, don't have a link! But it's a nice thought for those hoping. Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 There was a few situations on here where i had to really read into..names and ages were changed but some of the details were almost the same lol Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Maybe the ex is, but I take comfort in the fact that enough of our stories have so much similarity to them that the chances of that are fairly slim. Even if they contacted you directly and asked if it was you they don't really have any way of knowing unless they hack your computer directly. I have wondered if others on here are dating my ex though, because the guys sound so similar. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 My boyfriend, now ex, found me on here! It wasn't the greatest time in my life. I've had a name change since then and some of my threads were deleted but it wouldn't be too hard to find me. Whilst we were together he maintained he wouldn't do that but now that we no longer are ....... Link to comment
823freckles Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 It's weird to hear both positives and negatives of being found on this site! I think it's an important lesson in that the things we put on the internet are never as private as we might fool ourselves into believing...but then again, our exes need to not be searching out things we post. =/ Link to comment
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