EQIQ Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 Yes? No? Give your reasons. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 Yes - not recieving it (i mean, I like it but it's not something I NEED) but I could never have been with a man that didn't like blow jobs. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 nice Nightwish signature!!! no not a deal breaker, i love giving and receiving but prefer penetration anyway, but i do like the best of both worlds! but if i love someone i would not leave them over oral.....no penetration would be a dealbreaker, no oral not Link to comment
EQIQ Posted January 19, 2012 Author Share Posted January 19, 2012 I haven't ventured there yet, because I am one of those "sex after marriage" type of person. For me its a yes. As far as I sit right now, I find that I have more pleasure from making my partner feel good than anything else. So I would want to give. The problem is... if I am giving but not receiving.... then I think I would resent it and think that my wife is being selfish. Just trying to see the general consensus here. Because this is something I would definitely have to discuss before marriage. Link to comment
EQIQ Posted January 19, 2012 Author Share Posted January 19, 2012 Yes - not recieving it (i mean, I like it but it's not something I NEED) but I could never have been with a man that didn't like blow jobs. Btw OG how's life? Long time no see. All good? PM me with news Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 I'm pretty okay with not recieving even if I'm giving. I'm weird like that though Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 Btw OG how's life? Long time no see. All good? PM me with news I just shot you one. Link to comment
Raaawr Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 Yes? No? Give your reasons. If you asked me this a year ago I would have said no. But after getting out of a 2 year relationship where she only gave me oral once. Yes once! I have to say a resounding yes. I love giving oral and do it often and receiving it once now in retrospect is just ridiculous! Yes - not recieving it (i mean, I like it but it's not something I NEED) but I could never have been with a man that didn't like blow jobs. Wait! What? Marry me!? Link to comment
Generation Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 I can live without it. I like straight to the point. Link to comment
replytome Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 I can live without receiving...I only really like receiving if it's ''wrong'' or naughty, like in public. I couldn't live without giving though... Giving is one of the biggest turn on's for me... (more true if I'm in love). Link to comment
digdug Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 For me, yes it's a deal breaker. I like giving and receiving and think it's part of the entire "experience" ... Ugh, such a convo for a single man .... lol ~dig Link to comment
Thorshammer Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 I dont like performing oral sex unless I am seriously in the mood. This 'mood' is heightened by behavior outside of the bedroom. Very feminine clean women turn me on so much I want to lick them up and down. BJ i can have rarely, its not such a deal-breaker. Though if a girl says she doesnt do it, i chase after her to try to get her to do it. I like looking at a women and flipping her upside-down, against a wall, buried in the bed, as opposed to me sitting back and losing control. Link to comment
digdug Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 ..... Though if a girl says she doesnt do it, i chase after her to try to get her to do it. Lmfao!!!!! That made my day Thors .... too funny!!! Link to comment
DrKitten Posted January 19, 2012 Share Posted January 19, 2012 Yes, its a deal breaker for me if I'm unable to give or receive. I love both pretty equally. Link to comment
DoGGYtREAts Posted January 20, 2012 Share Posted January 20, 2012 Wouldn't be a deal breaker, But i definitely would miss both giving and receiving... Link to comment
Leya Posted January 21, 2012 Share Posted January 21, 2012 Currently, my guy and I rarely (if ever) do oral sex. I have been complimented by all my past boyfriends about my skills and I enjoy giving bj's as I love be able to deliver my Guy pleasure (and I know they appreciated them). And my longest term boyfriend also gave amazing oral BACK to me. The most amazing orgasms I have ever had came from him and his oral. It was fantastic. However, my current guy is waaaay too sensitive to receive. We have tried so many times - with me being as light a touch as possible and he is still too sensitive and we have to stop. So I have finally given up. I don't even attempt to anymore...it has never worked. ANd he rarely does it with me, and when he does...it's really not that great. So, we don't really do it too much. I do miss it (when it was good)- both giving and receiving. But for me, it's not a deal breaker because everything else in our relationship is awesome and amazing. I won't give up an overall amazing generous giving boyfriend for a guy who is less good to me, yet we have a few minutes a few times for decent oral sex. Besides, our regular sex is satisfying! So I am content with that. What would be a deal breaker is someone who had a low to no sex drive. That would NOT work for me. Link to comment
regular joe Posted January 21, 2012 Share Posted January 21, 2012 No, my last ex liked to give but not receive because was sensitive about me going down there. Her ex-husband used to make nasty comments to her about her vagina. I love giving and would have to get her in the right mood in order for me to do so and when I did she loved it. I don't think I could ever be with someone who didn't enjoy oral at all as in NO oral ever. I also have to agree with Leya's statement of What would be a deal breaker is someone who had a low to no sex drive. That would NOT work for me. Me either. Link to comment
MattW Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 I've never came close to doing anything sexual with a girl, but honestly, I've never been that into the idea of receiving oral sex. Not sure why that is, but the idea just irks me. I know that's... sort of unusual, given how big of a "thing" oral sex is, apparently, especially for guys. Link to comment
lastcall23 Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 I don't really think its a deal breaker for me. Though, I do really enjoy giving. Receiving has never been a big deal to me. Actually, my last relationship I never got it and was perfectly fine with it. But I do love giving. I like knowing I making him feel good, gets me even more in the mood than I already was. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 Dealbreaker. Becasue it is as good to give as it is to receive. If there is neither, or even only one, the circle is incomplete. Link to comment
PhilliesFan001 Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 Nope, not really that important to me. Link to comment
ballerina22 Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 Yes.. I need to give and receive. I dated a guy once who wanted me to preform on him but he would't go down on me. Dump. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 23, 2012 Share Posted January 23, 2012 I would say it is a deal breaker, I do not like sexual boundaries, my personal experience has taught me to stay away from people with sexual boundaries for acts that are common. Link to comment
OrangeMoon Posted January 23, 2012 Share Posted January 23, 2012 Yes? No? Give your reasons. Not receiving YES..I do accept it when its not that often..But never or hardly ever? YES Not being able to give it YES. That one definitely.. Link to comment
Fantanos Posted January 25, 2012 Share Posted January 25, 2012 Not receiving it, YES this would be huge... this is one of my favorite things ever.. Not giving, well my last girlfriend of 3.5 years never let me down there, she didn't like it. After awhile I kind of missed it, I missed turning a girl on and watching her squirm while I was down there. So from my standpoint I missed pleasing the girl rather then just the act of doing it. But again, receiving would be extremely important to me... and wanting to do that for me is important too, not just doing it because you have too. Link to comment
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