What is going on? help please!

[Tryan4211]

Alright, so i have been dating my girlfriend for over 6 months now, we have a great relationship together, I dont regret anything, we have had alot of fights, and mainly over small things, we always work them out. But last night we had a great day together, but at the end of the night, things went downhill.. i was sleeping at her house, and i woke up because i had to leave, she was alright and then something hit her, she wasnt very responsive, she wouldnt tell me whats wrong, i finally got it out of her, and she said she thinks everything is like a routine for me, I try my hardest to fill her needs of love and she denies when i tell her i always am affectionate towards her, i always tell her i love her, i always hold her hand, i always touch her ( not in a sexual way ) It was hard for me to hear that because in my head, i am thinking, "what can i even do to make things different?" "i cant leave" i have to admit, we do, do alot of the same stuff, so maybe i should do different things. Im very low on money right now so i cant take her out.. but what can i do?! i need help guys, i want to mend it no end it..

[Guitarguy_82]

Communicate with her. Find out exactly what she means by what she said. If she isn't understanding of your situation, that's one thing, but if she wants you to be more spontaneous, that is another.

[Daligal83]

Was she upset that you had to leave? Where did you have to go? Was this late at night or early in the morning that you left?