PaintWithLight Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 This story says a lot more about you than it does about him. This. I mean seriously OP. Shaking, crying, scared and you called him at work to scream at him? You worry about being with a perverted guy. Well, I think he should worry about a future with someone who handles problems in this manner. You were really over the top and need to think about your actions more. Why do you think you flipped out so badly? Link to comment
FathomFear Posted May 11, 2011 Share Posted May 11, 2011 I dont wanna find out 10 years down the road that im with a sick perverted guy... If looking at fetish stuff makes one "sick or perverted", then I'm afraid a very high percentage of the population falls into that category. As others have mentioned, I'm more concerned about your reaction. Crying/shaking seems like such a monstrous over-reaction. Is it a fair assessment that you had a relatively sheltered upbringing? Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 12, 2011 Share Posted May 12, 2011 Watching porn that is out of the norm (though I don't think anal is too out there, so I'm wondering if it was worse than that?) doesn't make a person perverted. I watch stuff that my past partners have been unable to watch, but I'm not a weird psycho or anything. Link to comment
sidehop Posted May 12, 2011 Share Posted May 12, 2011 I agree with others you allow him to go to strip clubs yet porn is bad. I think it's generally the other way around. Link to comment
Cuddlebuns Posted May 12, 2011 Share Posted May 12, 2011 Who doesn't have porn in their drawer, honestly? People who are smart enough to look up porn for free on the internet instead of buying videos/magazines... OP: Like everyone else said, you overreacted, and it doesn't make sense for you to go to strip clubs with him then freak out over some porn. Link to comment
Blacksheep09 Posted October 22, 2014 Author Share Posted October 22, 2014 update: Yes I literally was SO overreacting!!! It;s so funny to think I was so Naive... Hahah Link to comment
Silverbirch Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Haha Blacksheep! I saw one of your other old threads and would so love to read an update. I had something, not QUITE the same, but in some way similar so I understood how you must have felt. Was about the boyfriends of some of your female friends and tactless and inappropriate comments they made. Link to comment
Iggles Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Wow, update after 2 years. Glad to hear things worked itself out, OP. Are you still with the same guy? Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Wow, update after 2 years. Glad to hear things worked itself out, OP. Are you still with the same guy? Check again ... 3 1/2 years. Link to comment
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