Seraphim Posted May 5, 2014 Author Share Posted May 5, 2014 It seems my neighbours just want to keep escalating this issue. They called the MPs again last night. I guess we should put up with being verbally assaulted by his kids. I realize they are little kids but still I should be able to walk from my car to my own house without being verbally accosted by them. The MP said between us just talking to him ,looking at their yard, looking at you guys ,talking to you guys and looking at your yard I can see the difference. And the neighbour said he didn't know his kids were yelling insults at us. SUUUUUURRREE RIIIIIGHT. And I told the MP well of course they don't because they never supervise the kids in the yard ,ever. And he said he would talk to them about the behavior of their children and the need to supervise them. I said well you can talk all you want but it's going to fall on deaf ears . They will be doing exactly the same thing again tomorrow. It goes in one ear and out the other. And he's taking all of this to ridiculous levels. And my husband said you know I just drove home from Quebec city and I'm really tired of all this. So in the end they are going to make a room available for Mr. D bag and my husband to talk with a mediator. Personally I want nothing to do with it. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 5, 2014 Author Share Posted May 5, 2014 And when the oldest kid got caught out about her yelling insults she said ," oh we were just saying that to our imaginary friends." Hahaha sure you were. That's why it stopped when we went in the house right? And started up again when we went to get more things from the car? Sure sweetheart , sure. And I know where she heard this all from. Her D bag parents. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 5, 2014 Author Share Posted May 5, 2014 Man ,that meeting was confusing! So many things to do to get the ball rolling. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 6, 2014 Author Share Posted May 6, 2014 I hate going to work when my son is sick. He still has a raging fever. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 I will add more pics later. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 The first time I remember my father going to the critical mental health ward I was about 15 or 16. My mother was away for work. I came home from school and my father called me and said, " I am in the psych ward bring me my stuff." And he hung up. He did not even tell me which hospital. I had to phone around find out which hospital. He left me NO MONEY whatsoever, ( I had 38 CENTS exactly) and my 12 year old brother. I walked 26 blocks to the hospital with his stuff and was trying to figure out how to get into the ward and I could see him laughing at me from the window. When I finally got in there an hour later he laughed and told me what a loser I was. I threw his stuff at him and told him he was effin pathetic and I was just a kid. Just then the nurse walked in and told me what a "horrible daughter" I was. I said, " you know what lady? You do not even know this man. He is working you like a concert violin. He is an abusive, neglectful and disgusting parent so take your judgement of ME and stick it." Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 Your son looks so mature and grown up Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 Your son looks so mature and grown up Thanks Ren! He is looking more grown-up isn't he? As a comparison this is him about six years ago. link removed Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 This BS with my neighbours is really impeding my progress. And it is taking a huge toll on me. I am always on edge for what they're going to do next. Every day my chest just squeezes harder ,harder and harder. I know they are going to have the mediation but still you can't mediate respectfulness into a moron. They are going to do the exact same crap they have always done because they don't feel they have anything to learn and they are right. Well, I am done with it ,really and truly done with it. It is not my job to teach their kids boundaries and respect. To me none of them exist any longer. I told him to go to the mediation because it makes him look good and it's his career that could however slight go down the toilet if this goes any further. And then just come home and ignore that they exist. I told him that this is affecting my progress and my anxiety level shot up by about 1000%. What I didn't say is that if the douches continue as they are I might have to go home. I seriously can't live next to these people for a few more years. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 Ok, I can't really back down. That is ridiculous. My life is here. I am going to enjoy MY yard. I don't care what they do or say. They don't exist. I am reclaiming my space. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 During the meeting with the lady from Autism Ont she said it is very obvious my son is very very intelligent. Being disabled he has done far beyond expectation. Link to comment
Cheetarah Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 How about an outdoor canopy type thing? My aunt gave me hers, although this one has a zip up net to keep the bugs out...I am going to put a water and sand table in there for Mateo and his slide when it's really sunny. But she has another sort of "attachment" for it, which is a 3 sided draping canopy which has a lot of privacy. Link to comment
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