g84 Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 A friend of mine wants to do things. I have made it pretty clear that it would not feel right for me (for a couple of reasons). One of the reasons is that i don't want to experience these things with someone that i don't have real feelings for (in that way). I don't want to do this with my friend. I have explained why i feel this way, many times. I've been very specific about all my motives. He said he understood them in a way. But it keeps coming up in conversations (from his end), and it seems that he thinks i might reconsider. I am not very blunt about it, but i always make it pretty clear that i'm not going to change my mind. Since he's my friend, this is starting to make me a bit more uncomfortable when we talk. I don't think he truly means to make me feel that way, but it worries me a bit. It started off with him being more subtle, but now he says that he would like to try specific things with me. He goes into details. I have already expressed that it wouldn't feel right to me. I'm not sure what else i should say in this situation. (I meant to write this with more detail, but for reasons related to privacy i wanted to keep it a bit more general). thank you Link to comment
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