ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 My experience with super hot, drool-worthy model type guys is that they only want sex. That's fine by me and I've had sex with a bunch of them. One even had a girlfriend But, when I'm looking for a relationship I want someone I can feel safe with. So, yes, that's exactly what I mean, ISH. Ohhh... I get it now. Now that I think about it, the really overly good-looking ones do tend to turn me off. why is it so hard to believe a good looking, *ehem*, sorry, really good looking guys have values and morals? maybe not all, and in your experience it sounds like none, but some do. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 OK. I'll be even more brief. If I approach a girl who finds me attractive, everything's good. If I approach a girl who doesn't find me attractive, I'm causing her to be uncomfortable and creeped out. I'm causing her pain. What gives me the right to cause her pain? pain? why would she be in pain? what is your opening line? a drop kick? Link to comment
GernBlanston Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 edit: and why the crap do you want to befriend every girl you tried to get a phone number from for dating purposes? absolutely change that attitude man. Ladies, would you like to be friends with a guy to whom you've given your phone number? Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Ohhh... I get it now. Now that I think about it, the really overly good-looking ones do tend to turn me off. The ones who look as if they were photoshopped in the womb? yeah, they give me the creeps too. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 why is it so hard to believe a good looking, *ehem*, sorry, really good looking guys have values and morals? maybe not all, and in your experience it sounds like none, but some do. It's not that it's hard to believe, but a lot of them do come accross as slightly arrogant to me. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 It's not that it's hard to believe, but a lot of them do come accross as slightly arrogant to me. okay. what about a good looking one that isn't? Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 OK. I'll be even more brief. If I approach a girl who finds me attractive, everything's good. If I approach a girl who doesn't find me attractive, I'm causing her to be uncomfortable and creeped out. I'm causing her pain. What gives me the right to cause her pain? How would you know you are causing them "pain" if you don't approach? Link to comment
GernBlanston Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 pain? why would she be in pain? what is your opening line? a drop kick? I didn't say physical pain. It would be emotional pain. I'd be causing her to have negative emotions - discomfort and the feeling of being creeped out. Why do I have the right to impose that on her? Link to comment
g84 Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 OK. I'll be even more brief. If I approach a girl who finds me attractive, everything's good. If I approach a girl who doesn't find me attractive, I'm causing her to be uncomfortable and creeped out. I'm causing her pain. What gives me the right to cause her pain? You wouldn't be causing anyone any pain by approaching them. Definitely don't think this way. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 Ladies, would you like to be friends with a guy to whom you've given your phone number? why would a girl you approached want to suddenly be your friend anyway? maybe after you dated and realized you are compatible but not compatible enough, maybe yeah. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 okay. what about a good looking one that isn't? It'd be ok then, I guess. Honestly, I'm not the best person to ask because I reject every guy, cute or not. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 I didn't say physical pain. It would be emotional pain. I'd be causing her to have negative emotions - discomfort and the feeling of being creeped out. Why do I have the right to impose that on her? physical or mental. dude. seriously, don't approach women then. you have too many hangups. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 why is it so hard to believe a good looking, *ehem*, sorry, really good looking guys have values and morals? maybe not all, and in your experience it sounds like none, but some do. I'm sure there are some, but they are certainly not the ones coming after me I'd rather be with someone who would have a bit of difficulty cheating even if he wanted to. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I didn't say physical pain. It would be emotional pain. I'd be causing her to have negative emotions - discomfort and the feeling of being creeped out. Why do I have the right to impose that on her? Kinda arrogant don'tcha think? That you can cause discomfort to someone? Link to comment
GernBlanston Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 How would you know you are causing them "pain" if you don't approach? If I didn't approach, I'd know that I'm not causing them pain. If I did approach, I'd know there's a chance that I'm not causing them pain and a much larger chance that I am causing them pain. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 I'm sure there are some, but they are certainly not the ones coming after me I'd rather be with someone who would have a bit of difficulty cheating even if he wanted to. lmao. just cause a guy is good looking doesn't mean he's out there cheating. Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I'm sure there are some, but they are certainly not the ones coming after me I'd rather be with someone who would have a bit of difficulty cheating even if he wanted to. lol, women are Evile Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 If I didn't approach, I'd know that I'm not causing them pain. If I did approach, I'd know there's a chance that I'm not causing them pain and a much larger chance that I am causing them pain. i seriously think you are joking now. sorry, but your responses almost seem fake here. Link to comment
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 It's a stereotype like any other. People assume a lot based on looks. There are definitely ugly cheaters!! Plenty of them. People skew towards thinking a hot person would be less inclined to stay around. More temptation? Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 lmao. just cause a guy is good looking doesn't mean he's out there cheating. I agree, I bet there are more bad looking cheaters out there than good looking ones! Link to comment
GernBlanston Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Kinda arrogant don'tcha think? That you can cause discomfort to someone? Not arrogant. Realistic. Our actions have consequences for those we interact with. Worriedgirl clearly said she'd be creeped out if an unattractive guy approached her. Are you dismissing her feelings? Link to comment
dragon lady Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 lmao. just cause a guy is good looking doesn't mean he's out there cheating. No, but an attractive one has a much better chance of succeeding than an average looking one. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Not arrogant. Realistic. Our actions have consequences for those we interact with. Worriedgirl clearly said she'd be creeped out if an unattractive guy approached her. Are you dismissing her feelings? lol We're gonna get into a discussion about control over emotions again. You know that my belief is that it's worriedgirl's problem that she chose to feel that way. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 Not arrogant. Realistic. Our actions have consequences for those we interact with. Worriedgirl clearly said she'd be creeped out if an unattractive guy approached her. Are you dismissing her feelings? like she's going to go home and cry. i don't think she meant creeped like a cockroach just hit her foot. i think she meant to say more like unattracted. but why would her feelings matter to you? you don't know her from a spit in the bucket and she knows nothing of you. make a decision bro. either approach or kick yourself all the way home for never knowing. case closed on this. BACK TO MY THREAD PLEASE. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 ok so let's just assume for arguments sake everyone is attractive. Does it or does it not matter where you are when they approach you? This has gone way off topic. Link to comment
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