Rose21 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Share Posted April 10, 2009 Most of the time our love making is passionate. That's how I like it. I'm not really into the slow kind. I just love it when I get so worked up and we gravitate towards eachother, aching to be touched, wanting eachother more can be expressed. Toungues entwining, limbs entangling, grinding against eachother until we finally become one with moans and groans of urgency and satisfaction. Oh yeah, it's the best Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Um mutual masturbate. Lol I don't think either of us would find that appealing. Expecially since I can hardly get myself off. He would much rather do it for me. He says he does want to have sex with me though lol. Since the blood work came back okay in all. That's what mutual masturbation is. You both get each other off. Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 That's what mutual masturbation is. You both get each other off. No, that's giving each other a hand job. Mutually masturbating is two people masturbating at the same time. Link to comment
melrich Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Mutually masturbating is two people masturbating at the same time.No it's not. Mutual masturbating is masturbating each other. "Mutual" is not about time...it is about one things relationship with another. Here is a definition, Directed and received by each toward the other; reciprocal Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Yes that is the definition of mutual but I stand corrected as to the definition of masturbation. To me it was always meant self-pleasuring. Turns out it is manual stimulation of any kind. I always referred to manually stimulating one's partner as a hand job. Hmpf. Learn something new everyday. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Yes, that is the definition of mutual. The definition of masturbation is to pleasure oneself. The techniques of mutual masturbation resemble those of simple masturbation, with the exception that other persons are involved. The range of participation can be as simple as two participants masturbating in the same room at the same time without any physical contact to a group of people all stimulating one another. In the case of two participants, one partner may stimulate the other, each partner may stimulate the other, or one may stimulate both themselves and their partner. Both are acceptable. However, I've never masturbated in the same room with someone else where we didn't touch each other. Seems kind of pointless. Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I agree. Some folks like to watch though. Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 However, I've never masturbated in the same room with someone else where we didn't touch each other. Seems kind of pointless. I don't agree. How is it pointless to turn each other on to the point where you drives yourselves crazy,looking into each others eyes as you please yourselves...knowing you're both reaching to the point of an orgasm together, sharing something as intimate and intense knowing in your mind you are both thinking of one thing...how good it will feel to have your partner inside of her,after it ? It is an enjoyable game to play in the bedroom. It would be hard not to have sex in the end,after seeing that...but its far from pointless to me. Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I don't agree. How is it pointless to turn each other on to the point where you drives yourselves crazy,looking into each others eyes as you please yourselves...knowing you're both reaching to the point of an orgasm together, sharing something as intimate and intense knowing in your mind you are both thinking of one thing...how good it will feel to have your partner inside of her,after it ? It is an enjoyable game to play in the bedroom. It would be hard not to have sex in the end,after seeing that...but its far from pointless to me. If you dig it then more power to ya. To me it would be like sitting down in front of your favorite meal and just looking at it. I'd rather get to the business at hand. Link to comment
laisla Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 i've done mutual masturbation a couple of times, it was far from pointless, it was so passionate and hot. you could try that rose. it's a good tease. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 just ask your doctor if its safe to have sex. problem solved. if doc says no then you will just have to abstain and do something else. like outercourse. or oral. or mutual masturbation. Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 If you dig it then more power to ya. To me it would be like sitting down in front of your favorite meal and just looking at it. I'd rather get to the business at hand. That is what is part of the game. ...I will take my meal regardless of anything,after when it is too much to hold in. there are moments where you can't wait and you just need to rip eachothers clothes off and have sex,that is when I do not play games. But there are other moments where you want to tease each other,and this is one of those things...Can't argue with the sensuality of seeing my lady touch herself for me,as I am doing the same thing...until she can't hold it in,and begs me to f her. Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 That is what is part of the game. ...I will take my meal regardless of anything,after when it is too much to hold in. there are moments where you can't wait and you just need to rip eachothers clothes off and have sex,that is when I do not play games. But there are other moments where you want to tease each other,and this is one of those things...Can't argue with the sensuality of seeing my lady touch herself for me,as I am doing the same thing...until she can't hold it in,and begs me to f her. Whatever melts yer butter but for me masturbation and sex are two separate things. For me masturbation is a form of release whereas sex is an activity to be enjoyed with a partner. Can't say it wouldn't turn me on to watch my partner touching herself but the novelty would wear off pretty quickly. But it takes all kinds. Link to comment
RipTideRush Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Yes that is the definition of mutual but I stand corrected as to the definition of masturbation. To me it was always meant self-pleasuring. Turns out it is manual stimulation of any kind. I always referred to manually stimulating one's partner as a hand job. Hmpf. Learn something new everyday. I am with you, I thought mutual masturbating was watching eachother get off, with you, yourself doing the masturbation. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted April 11, 2009 Author Share Posted April 11, 2009 Too late. We already had passionate, hot sex tonight It didn't hurt, it felt AMAZING. One of the best ever. Hehe. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Too late. We already had passionate, hot sex tonight It didn't hurt, it felt AMAZING. One of the best ever. Hehe. are you taking a cigarette break? get back in there!! Link to comment
Rose21 Posted April 11, 2009 Author Share Posted April 11, 2009 Lol noooo! He already left. It lasted almost an hr, but he's tired from his 6 hr drive and the ahem (effort to satisfy) He went back an hr ago to have dinner with his parents and un pack and wash his clothes. But they're shall be more tomorrow!=) And noo, I dont smoke. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 what is on the agenda tomorrow night? Link to comment
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