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Everything posted by laisla

  1. that's not the problem. he switched it around to make it seem like lightdrawer said not to have any pleasure. not true at all.
  2. doesn't look like that's what lightdrawer is saying. s/he's saying it's most important to get it checked out in case it leads to something worse. and why suffer longer? it's not even about pleasure. HIV is pretty bad. it makes you feel really sick.
  3. yea, please get an STD test. even if you just kiss your husband you could infect him.
  4. i did pretty much the same thing a month ago.
  5. if she was hesitant in even going for a coffee, i don't see how you and her would be able to date or get married. if you convert, do it for yourself and your own beliefs, not for her. if you convert and still like her, then go for it. otherwise you will open the door to a ton of heartache by doing it the other way around.
  6. april 4, 2009 - 1:10 am well he messaged me on msn. he told me not to leave him. he was being very emotional. any other day i would have definitely taken him back. the difference is that this time i know i don't want this relationship. he is way too overprotective and i have become an unhappy person. i do love him VERY much. but i cannot handle "us". he got mad in the end and told me to block him. so.......i did. i blocked him. wow. it's really over. am i a bad person for this? i mean i wasn't being sweet to him. not rude, but he turned it around on me to make it seem like i left him
  7. april 3, 2009 it has been almost a full day that i haven't spoken to him. although he is trying to make me message him on msn because his status says that he is out smoking weed (he stopped during more than half of our relationship). guess what, i won't message him . if he really wants it to be over he wouldn't even be online, especially not with that status that is OBVIOUSLY directed at me since he's done it before. plus he could have messaged me but he won't he's got too much pride. well now i am going to build up my pride again and i will not contact him! here's to better days. tod
  8. ^ i'd rather be do-able than un-doable though, lol
  9. not all of us are wearing iPods but i guess i'm not the doable kind.
  10. there is marijuana butter...you can use it to make cookies....
  11. does this have anything to do with you not wanting to give over control during sex? to be able to completely "let go" during sex to the point of orgasm takes some trust and i think practice as well...your gf may be good at going down on you, but you're the one who can take it to the "point of no return". during (vaginal) sex when the guy is penetrating, he has a degree of control and i think it is easier for him to get off, whereas it's different for oral.
  12. wow, i thought i was reading a 12 year olds letter..... i think you are looking into the situation with P WAY too much. either you can ask him out, or keep playing these "what if" games, or you can move on and perhaps find someone new. he seems like a waste of time so far.
  13. everyone who is sexually active has some sort of risk. the difference is that people can make sex safer by avoiding or minimizing high-risk behaviour. of course anyone who has had sex CAN get an STD somehow, but if someone is not using condoms, having one-night stands, etc. that makes it more likely they could get infected. for me it's safer to get to know someone, be in a real relationship with them, make sure they are clean (through records) and then do the deed.....versus having a ONS where i can never get the fact of them being clean or not, since i would have only known them for a few
  14. but would you have the time to see if they are STD-free in their doctor's report if you just met them that night? anyone could lie about being clean, plus even if they had a checkup a few weeks prior, but slept with 5 other people, how can you know that they didn't recently get something from one of those other five ONS?
  15. you're a strong girl, PG, it's good for a lot of girls on ENA to read about situations like these where a person keeps their self-esteem. now you're free from worrying about his inconsistencies and you can be open to finding a MATURE guy.
  16. speak up about it. tell her that it's not funny and disrespectful. don't fight with her but just speak up so that there is some consequence to her actions. it only takes one person to make a difference when it comes to things like this. at least then, by the time you get a manager, you can tell her/him about it and something can really be done.
  17. wow, that is harsh. sounds like there may be some other things that bother her for her to say that. rings really do itch and bother me, i would totally understand if someone else wouldn't want to wear one...i hope they work it out.
  18. it doesn't seem odd. i don't like rings myself either. it bothers my hands and i hate when they feel tight. i'd definitely be open to wearing it around my neck.
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