Nope09 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Day 7 woke up went to church and it was amazing I thought about him and how we would go to church together and I actually was ok didnt feel sad or anything its easier going through this kowing you are on a ship on the other side of the world and I wont be bumping int to you any time soon...I miss you but I'm not going to break this like I did in the past this is for me and not for you....going to the gym today then hanging with friends to finish watch game of thrones Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Day 9, I start counseling today. I'm looking forward to it. I've been thinking about dating but I don't think it's wise if while I'm trying to heal. I just want to focus on being a whole again. I do wish I had more single friends that I could go out with. I really want to go snowtubing. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Day 8 and my heart is really missing you right now but I refuse to reach out and break no contact because I need this...I'm planning a super bowl party at my house and thats a good distraction I've been going to church and the gym and its been helping me a lot...I know I'm not ready to date this time is to focus on me and thats what I'm doing. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Day 8 and my heart is really missing you right now but I refuse to reach out and break no contact because I need this...I'm planning a super bowl party at my house and thats a good distraction I've been going to church and the gym and its been helping me a lot...I know I'm not ready to date this time is to focus on me and thats what I'm doing. You got this! Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Day 9, I start counseling today. I'm looking forward to it. I've been thinking about dating but I don't think it's wise if while I'm trying to heal. I just want to focus on being a whole again. I do wish I had more single friends that I could go out with. I really want to go snowtubing. I know how you feel everyone has someone...I force my friends to do single things with me and since they are my therapist they do Link to comment
Shadowbite Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 day 3. I find myself at the end of this night, that I feel I don't want her back anymore at all. I see her very negative right now. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Day 10 I really miss him But I feel proud of myself Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Day 9 yesterday was rough but my best friend made it better....I wanted to email and check Facebook and the whole 9 yards but then I realize that would set me back so I took a deep breath read the bible a little and went my friends house to chit chat and watch TV and that really helped...this morning I wake up not feeling so sad anymore I miss talking to you but I'm not going to entertain this foolishness....just remember what your mom said when you finally realize your mistake just hope that I'm still here which I probably won't be Link to comment
Fame1977 Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 This isn't really a no contact message, as much as it is somewhere to put my thoughts. It's probably silly since the only one that can answer what is going on in your head is you. I'm not sure why you came back, if you didn't want to try harder than you are trying right now. Usually I wouldn't freak out, but for real, ever since what happened with us before my head and my heart are a bit fragile. When we did hang out and see each other, I really thought it was amazing. I hope I didn't scare you off. I know we aren't serious or anything, it's just the same thing is happening that you did before so I'm lost as what to do. Do I just keep waiting around? I don't know anymore Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Still day 9 just got some amazing news i got a huge raise at work!!! I'm so excited and I wish I could share it with you but I can't break NC....maybe one day down the road when we both have grown and are able to speak I can but not right now... Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 Day 10 I really miss him But I feel proud of myself Stay strong you got this!!! Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 Day 10 woke up with a smile I went on your Facebook page yesterday and saw that you have a new girlfriend and I busted out laughing realizing I dont want nor need you in my life anymore....this will probably be my last post because I have cut this man out of my life and will never be contacting him again I have to much worth to be worried about someone who is mot worthy of my time or thoughts so to everyone on here be strong and I hope this works for you Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 Day 11. Everyday gets better. Although my heart still hurts. I know that one day he will realize that he lost a great thing. But by that time it won't even matter. I haven't contacted him and it feels so good. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 Won't stop thinking about him Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Day 12 woke up thinking about him but I feel ok. I'll get through this. My next therapy session is tomorrow. Looking forward. Focusing more on the gym and getting myself together. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Anyone else doing no contact? Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Day 13, less urge to call. So proud of myself. Gym and counseling today. Will check in within the next few days. Link to comment
Shadowbite Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Today will be the longest day we haven't talked to each other within 4 years. Today is the beginning of the 7th day. It's bitter sweet. In one way, I'm happy. I find myself happier without her than with her, sad as that is to say.. I didn't expect my No contact journey to be easy this time. I've been eating well, Exercising. Getting my business together. I'm almost to the point where I'll be further along my goals I've had without her in 7 days, than with her in years. She's bad for me. But, I still miss her. Still consider her my little girl. Link to comment
mpatte92 Posted January 16, 2015 Share Posted January 16, 2015 Day 1 and I'm not even sure I can make this work just yet since we live together, work together and carpool together. I'm talking to him as little as possible, I suppose and it ing kills me. He told me he was never in love with me in the 19 months we were together and that he was just a shell of himself. That cut really deep and I am trying to be strong. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 That is hard. You should check out breakup Brad/Brad browning on YouTube. He gives great advice. He may give advice that may help your current situation. Stay strong, you will get through this. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 I'm on day 14. I didn't think I would make it this far. But I feel so good. He doesn't deserve my power. I will never contact him again. Not even after 30 days. Link to comment
Shadowbite Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 day 8 here, Not much to say. Feel better without her, but still miss her. ¯\_(ツ _/¯ Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Day 15. Cried last night and crying this morning. Hoping I'll feel better sooner than later. My ex doesn't have Facebook. I only had one of his friends as a friend on Facebook. I noticed this week that she unfriended me. I never commented on her posts or anything. I did like one of the photos she put up this week of the soft ball team(I met them). I honestly didn't think any thing of it but I should not have liked. Trying not to over think anything. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 day 8 here, Not much to say. Feel better without her, but still miss her. ¯\_(ツ _/¯ Yep, missing the person will take a long time to go away. If it ever does. Link to comment
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