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I dont know what day I'm on I stopped counting at 30 but yesterday was vday and it was awesome I went out with a friend and it was fun this morning I woke up not thinking about my ex at all then I get an email from one of my girls I'm virtually training in fitness I just so happened to look at my filter folders and saw a message from him that said happy vday....yeah I didnt respond lol not ready to plus I like feeling in power and having him wonder when and why I fell off the face of the earth I have a date this week though and I'm excited about that..good luck folks no contact is for you to pick up the pieces and begin to get your life together
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Day 30! Was pretty my show Being Mary Jane came on and I swear that episode was about my life at this moment minus the baby lol...but I'm proud I've come this far haven't heard anything from my ex since Sunday but if he did try to reach out through text talk I wouldn't know since I deleted the app lol anywho working n my 21 day fitness challenge for some ladies that need my assistance and just focusing on me trust me it gets easier at 30 sometimes I get scared that he'll forget about me then I realize I'm the no one forgets about me lol
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Day 29 and I feel like crap had way to much fun last night lol one more day and I hit the 30 day mark yay
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All he said was sorry at this point his words don't mean if you catch my drift lol actions scream words are silent and I am not responding nor emailig him I'm more worried about planning my trips and training these girls on fitness he's the last thought on my mind and I'm proud of you one more day to go!!!!
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Day 28!!! Whoop whoop super bowl sunday baby just got home from buying food I'm having a get together at my house later on oh to be surrounded by friends and love lol well I looked on my tablet and saw a message from my ex through text talk an app we used when he would be out at sea...I wont lie it caught me off guard and my heart skipped a beat but I ignored it and now I'm cleaning and getting ready for these ppl to come mess my house up smh lol its funny becuase just a few weeks ago I would have answered the message but today I just looked at it and said don't answer and I didn't I'm so proud of myself idk if we will ever talk but I know today isnt isn't going to be the first day anywho happy Super Bowl Sunday everyone!!!!!
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Nope09 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
ITS SUPER BOWL SUNDAY!!!!!! you're on a ship in the Mediterranean being miserable and I'm home about to be surrounded by love ♥ hahaha to bad you wont hear any words of encouragement from me -
Day 27/ almost 28...before I start I think about my ex all the time anywho went to the gym and killed it starting a 21 day challenge to see where my body can be In 21 days of eating healthy and exercising everyday super excited....cleaned my apartment tomorrow/today I guess lol I'm having a super bowl fest at my place...the highlight of my night though ing karaoke!!!! Omg I've never had so much fun in my life lol I swear I lost my voice lol anywho I'm proud of myself this is the longest I've gone with no form of contact with my ex and I dont know if he has noticed or not but then again I dont really care welp bed time then when I wake up it'll be SUPER BOWL SUNDAY!!!!!
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Yaaaayyy look at you!!!! 2 more days to go!
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Day 26? Went to they gym yesterday and killed my workout....my sorority sister is not so happy with me because her body aches lmbo but she'll thank me later lol scandal and how to get away with murder came on last night and it AWESOME!!!! I swear I dont breathe when those shows are on lol anywho today I'm going to work, gym for anothet torture session and hanging with some friends whoop whoop cheers to the weekend...sn still think about my ex but only in the mornings or before bed but those thoughts are fading....yay
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Yaaaayyy look at you!!!
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Day idk lol so I started going on an emotional roller coaster of I want to email him but then I met up with my friend who I am training and we hit the gym! Can I say my mind was clear so I started emailing everyone who wants help shedding the lbs I actually really like doing this it makes me happy knowing I can transform peoples bodies....also its kinda of a haha moment seein that when we were together I wasn't in great shape but now people are asking me for help because I motivate them
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Well I hope it works for you!!!!
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Day 22 pretty good day got off f work early went to the gym and meal prepped....I just realized I've lost 30lbs everyone on instagram was shocked by my before and after pictures....I haven't seen you in a min but I know you would be proud to bad you'll never get to see my hot body summer aint ready lol 8 more days to go
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Nope09 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
So I know you're on deployment and I recieved a mysterious phone call last week it was from a number I didnt recognized and when I tried to call it back it went to some busy signal...I wish I w would have picked up because I think it was you calling from the ship were you calling to apologize? Say you're sorry for what you did and how you treated me? Will you attempt to call me again I wonder anyways I hope you didn't die I'm still not ready to reach out to you yet the would is creatin a scab but its not fully healed yet -
We will!!!! Hahaha we're a day apart I just dont post everyday to busy living life and meeting beautiful souls
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It was hard for me too but once I started I haven't stopped especially now that I'm getting abs lol but you got this girl just imagine getting to day 30!!!
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The only thing I can think of that might help with that is honestly working out it clears my head and it's like therapy plus you get out and you get to be around people even if its only for an hour try that and see if that helps
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Wow 21 days time fly by lol ummm today went to church and the gym I'm meal prepping for the week and I met this really sweet guy he's funny and I cant stop smiling when we text each other he seems really cool...funny how 2 months ago I thought you were the only one for me and no one else would do but now I realize thats not true at all...lets see what happens by day 30
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Day 18 I think...still care about you but I'm having so much fun that now you're the last thought in my head lol I've come a long way from the mess I was almost 2 months ago
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It gets better
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Uh oh sounds like she regrets letting go such a catch best of luck don't just do whats in your head but also in your heart
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Nope09 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I'm joining the Navy you said if I would do it just go all the way and not reserves....I hope I ship out before you get back from deployment because I know if you are here I will want to see you...but if I dont have access to any of that stuff it makes it easier...I hope we are never stationed in the same place seeing that you want to go to California and so do I I pray that you go to VA instead....this is hard for me but I haven't cried in a while and I know this will get better I just have to be strong and keep pushing -
Day 10 woke up with a smile I went on your Facebook page yesterday and saw that you have a new girlfriend and I busted out laughing realizing I dont want nor need you in my life anymore....this will probably be my last post because I have cut this man out of my life and will never be contacting him again I have to much worth to be worried about someone who is mot worthy of my time or thoughts so to everyone on here be strong and I hope this works for you
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Nope09 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Going on your Facebook just made everything clear to me...I'm done with you for good now