Nope09 Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Day 26. Like I said before, I'm so proud of myself. It definitely gets easier. Yaaaayyy look at you!!! Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Yaaaayyy look at you!!! Don't forget, you are not too far behind me. Link to comment
killk8 Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 I'm new to this site. I'm on Day 3 of NC. We hadvery little contact that consisted of fighting and horrible comments back and forth Monday. I blocked him on FB yesterday so that helped. I'm so sad though, just terribly lonely. Thanks, Kate Link to comment
Shadowbite Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 her friend I accidentally messaged removed me herself, Probably should have done it myself but but it seemed rude. Also, apparently my ex herself deleted my friends, but not me during the same day... Guess they talked. I'm still blocked ironically, but not deleted.... Why wouldn't she remove me also? All this makes me feel like im not in nc, anymore. More like silent contact. *sigh* Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Day 27 almost to 30. Very happy with the decision to go no contact. After about 90 days I'll send him a letter. Not about me loving him or anything. Mostly a closure letter. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Day 26? Went to they gym yesterday and killed my workout....my sorority sister is not so happy with me because her body aches lmbo but she'll thank me later lol scandal and how to get away with murder came on last night and it AWESOME!!!! I swear I dont breathe when those shows are on lol anywho today I'm going to work, gym for anothet torture session and hanging with some friends whoop whoop cheers to the weekend...sn still think about my ex but only in the mornings or before bed but those thoughts are fading....yay Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I still think about him quite a bit. I miss him a lot. But I don't really have the urge to call him. I have no interest in dating at all. I'm not sure when that feeling will past. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 Day 28, yes! Yaaaayyy look at you!!!! 2 more days to go! Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 Yes I'm so happy that I'm sticking to it. Can't wait to get to 60. My heart still hurts and I still long for him. Think of him all the time. But contacting him will not happen. It just would not make any sense. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Day 27/ almost 28...before I start I think about my ex all the time anywho went to the gym and killed it starting a 21 day challenge to see where my body can be In 21 days of eating healthy and exercising everyday super excited....cleaned my apartment tomorrow/today I guess lol I'm having a super bowl fest at my place...the highlight of my night though ing karaoke!!!! Omg I've never had so much fun in my life lol I swear I lost my voice lol anywho I'm proud of myself this is the longest I've gone with no form of contact with my ex and I dont know if he has noticed or not but then again I dont really care welp bed time then when I wake up it'll be SUPER BOWL SUNDAY!!!!! Link to comment
Nope09 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Day 28!!! Whoop whoop super bowl sunday baby just got home from buying food I'm having a get together at my house later on oh to be surrounded by friends and love lol well I looked on my tablet and saw a message from my ex through text talk an app we used when he would be out at sea...I wont lie it caught me off guard and my heart skipped a beat but I ignored it and now I'm cleaning and getting ready for these ppl to come mess my house up smh lol its funny becuase just a few weeks ago I would have answered the message but today I just looked at it and said don't answer and I didn't I'm so proud of myself idk if we will ever talk but I know today isnt isn't going to be the first day anywho happy Super Bowl Sunday everyone!!!!! Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Day 29, yay! Almost at 30. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Wow, I guess he's going to start contacting you. What could you even say right?? Stay focused. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Wow, I guess he's going to start contacting you. What could you even say right?? Stay focused. All he said was sorry at this point his words don't mean if you catch my drift lol actions scream words are silent and I am not responding nor emailig him I'm more worried about planning my trips and training these girls on fitness he's the last thought on my mind and I'm proud of you one more day to go!!!! Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 All he said was sorry at this point his words don't mean if you catch my drift lol actions scream words are silent and I am not responding nor emailig him I'm more worried about planning my trips and training these girls on fitness he's the last thought on my mind and I'm proud of you one more day to go!!!! Yep, just keep ignoring him. You deserve better. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Day 29 and I feel like crap had way to much fun last night lol one more day and I hit the 30 day mark yay Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Day 30. Finally I'm here. Link to comment
Nope09 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Day 30. Finally I'm here. Yay!!! How does it feel Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Day 29 and I feel like crap had way to much fun last night lol one more day and I hit the 30 day mark yay Yay!!! How does it feel I actually wrote a thread about it. I just don't have the urge to call. Otherwise I still think about him all the time and miss his presence dearly. I miss him tying my shoes... Kissing my hands. I just miss him. Link to comment
palmer14 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 I'm on Day 8 after my girlfriend of a year and 2 months dumped me because she wasn't feeling it anymore, and she couldn't put the effort into the relationship that it needed. The first few days were really rough but every day things get a little more clear. The anxiety and depression comes and goes and I miss her like crazy but I know this is the only way for her to have time to reconsider being with me again. Until then, I'm going to work on myself and be happy without her Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Good you are on the right track. Go to counseling if needed as well. Link to comment
Heavy Posted February 2, 2015 Share Posted February 2, 2015 Ok so I had to restart after some more soul searching when my ex reached out to me and started chatting. I have since found out it was for and ego boost for herself and thanks to Brokenhart84 I have made the decision to go NC again. I will not listen to anything she has to say unless it is her saying sorry I made a mistake and I want to try and work stuff out. She has alot of personal issues that she has to work on befoe even that would be an option. It's hard but I know in the long run I will be a better person as I'm emotionally detached from life after her contacting me and giving false hope. Link to comment
neverknown Posted February 3, 2015 Share Posted February 3, 2015 I just realized today marks 60 days since we last had contact. I still have feelings of longing, but when I think back to how I felt even a month ago I can tell I'm making progress. The wheels of change are in motion, and I'm excited to see what this year holds. Keep pushing on, everyone. You're all doing great, and it will be okay. Really. Link to comment
bugatti Posted February 3, 2015 Share Posted February 3, 2015 Day 30. I feel really terrible today because it's our anniversary today. I don't have urge to contact her but I feel guilty because I rejected her friendship - I told her she can contact me only if she changes her mind. I can't be her friend and NC is best option for me... I understand that NC has more positives then staying in contact... but I still have some flashbacks of guilt. She dumped me, she broke my hearth and then she wants to be friends? Hm. Selfish. Maybe I just need some empowering words why rejecting friendship was an good idea, please? Link to comment
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