Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 And yes I agree at the beginning of a relationship its fun to be mysterious, that's the getting to know each other phase. If everyone walked into a relationship and laid everything out about themselves it would be B-O-R-I-N-G but once the relationship develops and one is STILL trying to figure out the other person feelings/intentions, then it gets tiresome, draining and probably going down the tubes. Link to comment
grymoire Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 And yes I agree at the beginning of a relationship its fun to be mysterious, that's the getting to know each other phase. If everyone walked into a relationship and laid everything out about themselves it would be B-O-R-I-N-G but once the relationship develops and one is STILL trying to figure out the other person feelings/intentions, then it gets tiresome, draining and probably going down the tubes. how can you develop a relationship with someone when they are mysterious and you don't know much about them? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 introductions: ITG - drew, drew - ITG. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Sure am! But don't quote me on that because sometime "I" can't not figure out myself. But back to the whole dating situation. I know that I am not rushing anything because I didn't feel ANY guilt or sadness for last night. It all felt natural and exciting like it should be. I'm not the only one who quotes! Pffff! Usually men don't usually say they themselves are having a hard time figuring things out. True or not true? So - is it safe to say that you weren't 100% sure that ya weren't rushing things until after you tested yourself last night? Until ya proved you didn't feel guilty? Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 how can you develop a relationship with someone when they are mysterious and you don't know much about them? well you get to know them, you both open up little by little . Takes time and its usually a fun and exciting process. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 introductions: ITG - drew, drew - ITG. Is this pick on ITG day? lmao Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Is this pick on ITG day? lmao you didn't get the memo? just teasin sweetie. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Nah - Memo didn't arrive... ! But spose if I can dish it out, I better be ready to take it..... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Nah - Memo didn't arrive... ! But spose if I can dish it out, I better be ready to take it..... same with dating and sex. avi take her quote down. haha Link to comment
Aviatormy Posted November 14, 2008 Author Share Posted November 14, 2008 I'm not the only one who quotes! Pffff! Usually men don't usually say they themselves are having a hard time figuring things out. True or not true? So - is it safe to say that you weren't 100% sure that ya weren't rushing things until after you tested yourself last night? Until ya proved you didn't feel guilty? Before she came over and we made out night before last... I didn't know what to expect. As soon as she turned towards me on the couch and puckered up.... I knew that I was doing the right thing. So last night, I had no doubts at all. Everything went amazing So in fairness, yeah, I was not sure about how I would feel after hooking up with someone just a few weeks after the break up. I don't think you can ever really know if you are ready though Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 i'm always ready. haha, just kidding. sounds like i have no heart. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 69;2883245]introductions: ITG - drew, drew - ITG. haha! your F-retarted man!! lol. sorry, just in a wacky good mood today. its friday, payday, tons of partys this weekend and probably gettin laid so im just a ball of joy right now Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 haha! your F-retarted man!! lol. sorry, just in a wacky good mood today. its friday, payday, tons of partys this weekend and probably gettin laid so im just a ball of joy right now i really didn't need to read you are a ball of joy and 'laid' in the same sentence. sick. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Yes Im getting laid too!!! Ball of joy!! woo hooo lol Link to comment
grymoire Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 sorry, just in a wacky good mood today. its friday, payday, tons of partys this weekend and probably gettin laid so im just a ball of joy right now good for your Drew... i hope to reach this point some day Link to comment
Aviatormy Posted November 14, 2008 Author Share Posted November 14, 2008 good for your Drew... i hope to reach this point some day Why not reach try and reach this point today Gry? All you have to do is network with friends and see if there is a party worth going to this weekend and then find a girl that you would like to invite to it. Make that your goal today. If nothing else, accomplish one of the two goals... Either find a party to go to, find a girl to take out or find a party AND a girl to take to it. I can almost gurantee if you ask 5 girls, you will get at least 1 yes. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Hahhahahahahhahhahaha! It is gonna be a good weekend, I can tell! Although I'll probably not be having the fun many of you will! Avi.... haha Thanks for the details of how your visits have went... "When she puckered up I just knew!" hehe You don't think one can ever tell if they are completely ready? Eh - guess it doesn't matter.... Fun is fun even if you're not ready.... maybe. Sometimes... Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Yes Im getting laid too!!! Ball of joy!! woo hooo lol AC! hehe You're the best Girl!!!! Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 damn no party and no getting laid..... bummer Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 maybe no party this weekend for me, but i might go out and watch the UFC fight somewhere. i can probably make some calls and get some booty if i meet nobody. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 AC! hehe You're the best Girl!!!! haha, thanks! Us girls need to get some too! Its been an awful week, thank god its almost over Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 ^^ I hear ya! ! I'm going to dinner tonight.... That works for me! PS You guys crack me up.... Make some phone calls... meet someone... gettin some no matter! Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 ^^ I hear ya! ! I'm going to dinner tonight.... That works for me! Dinner as in a date?? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Dinner as in a date?? Mmmmm.... I don't consider it a date. Taking a friend out for dinner for his birthday. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 14, 2008 Share Posted November 14, 2008 Mmmmm.... I don't consider it a date. Taking a friend out for dinner for his birthday. Ahhhhhhh either way - have fun! As for Ghost and his booty call - tsk tsk lol Link to comment
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