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eh..already done..a dinner next week
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ouch..burned..It is a friendship I am not so willing to * * * * up by turning it into a relationship..And I only show up to her work if she asked me to which was not everyday..It just started a month ago. Not only that she just broke up with her significant other not more than a week ago
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Okay so there is this girl. Normal way to start out one of these right, lol..Anywho, I am really into her, and I think she is into me..She works with one of my friends, and I have met her a few times before I realized they worked together. Well I had just chilled at my friends work with him a couple night shifts because I had nothing better to do, and she was working with him. And she invited me to chill with her when she works night shifts as well, becuase normally they are all by themselves from 6-11, so it was more of an invitation to have some company around while she was alone. Well it has been a good month or so and we have gotten to know each other more..I just recently finished teaching her how to solve a Rubics Cube, and we swapped numbers as well..I didn't think she was into me, too..But my friends started to tell me to ask her out, and advice like that never comes from him so it kinda threw me for a loop..Also I never think anyone is into me so it is just a natural feeling I have so it doesn't count for much. Well anyway yesterday we swapped numbers and I just had a few questions, How long should I wait to give her a call, and also, should I ask her on a date and how?
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Just lookin' for some advice on this one
Blueyed2000 replied to Blueyed2000's topic in Dating Advice
Haha, word to that...I just didn't call them back, I don;t even know how old they were, probably like maybe 16 atleast one of them had to be atleast. Kinda a weird way to meet someone -
Well, I guess I should start at the beginning. Well the other day I am driving down the road and a car with 3 girls pulls up next to me. They asked for my number so I gave it to them. We text msged every so often, just to keep some what of a conversation going. (I have only talked to 2 out of the 3, but they have been different conversations) Just wondering what my next step should be..
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Okay, this time I am going to post before I say something.
Blueyed2000 replied to Blueyed2000's topic in Dating Advice
We talked about it for a little while then she had to goto bed 'cause it was like 3 in the morning there. Didn't turn out quite as I hoped but it was as I expected, I am not much of a Long distance relation fan either, but I hope someday I find someone just like her. Well thanks for all the advice, see you guys again the next time I have a quesiton. -
Okay, this time I am going to post before I say something.
Blueyed2000 replied to Blueyed2000's topic in Dating Advice
Well see, that is why I am so hesitant... -
Okay, so I have grown very fond of this girl I met online about 2 years ago..We both are always there for each other when in need, although it has only been on Aol Instant Msger, I believe both of us are to shy to ask the other if it could ever work out between us. Although there has been a few subliminal msgs between each other..I am just having the problem with the distance which I am sure she (if she has thought any of this) has thought about too, one in new york the other in colorado. I guess the basic question here is, should I ask her? Maybe in a hypothetical or just strait out saying it...Now I am sure I don't "Love" her yet, because of the only communication has been through IMing, I do feel a deep connection between us, but I am not sure if I should go through with it, any help from you guys would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
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Score one for the random flashbacks
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HOw do u really KnOw U r In Love!!!!!
Blueyed2000 replied to WArrior458's topic in Relationship Advice
Hmm...Love...Love is a word we use inorder to if even barely attempt to describe a feeling with no true discription...for centuries poets and artists have tried with no luck to fully understand the meaning of love..But some may say that love is the ability to forgive no matter what happens...The ability to do anything even just for one brief second of absolute bliss...Such as knowing that you gave your life but saved there's...The connection both mentally and physically between 2 people...To know that no matter how deep of a hole you dig yourself into, they will be there to help you dig yourself out...To trust, and believeing anything they say, even if you know they are wrong, and to be there to back them up, even for a lost 'cause...To be able to completely degrate yourself to make them laugh...To be the shoulder they cry on when their life becomes troubled..And knowing that at the end of the day you will be lying next to the only person in the world that wonders how much different it could have been if you never would have gotten their attention so long ago...And even this coming from someone who has only felt this feeling once, still knowing that someday, maybe even too late I will realize that what I had back then was worth every agonizing day I went through to feel that glimpse of happiness...Yeah... -
You think that is long you had better read some more of these posts...Anyway, I think it would be a good idea to get beack up on the saddle and see what happens...
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I was walking down the hallway at my school one day and there was this kid next to me just walking down the hall next to me and next to him there was this girl, and it started like this "[Her name] we have known each other and been friends for a long time now and" [He paused here] She said "Yes..." He began again with "after I really got to know you, I began to find myself looking at you and thinking how wonderful it would be if I had a chance to be more than friends with you..." That is where I turned to go into my class so I didn't here the rest of it...But the moral is maybe just catch up with her as she is walking down the hall when she is more alone than not...I would suggest definitaly doing it in person though..Well, I probably confused you more than I helped, but you never know if things will help or not..
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Learning from experience...Don't do this over the internet...If you are going to ask her out do it in person
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Heh...Just to recap...The relationship eventually went down in flames...*note to self* Don't start out a relationship with a lie as big as that, it only begins to compound
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Yeah, I am not putting much thought into it...After I got burned the first time, I have been ever so cautious since...The biggest problem with my first g/f (Mind you I am 17 and only had 1 g/f) was there really was no love going from me to her...She was just a filler for a gap that was always growing bigger day by day...But when she wanted to go farther and I wasn't ready she said "Well, I guess you aren't as excited about our relationship as you used to be" and that to me was the absolute worse thing she could have said to me, the only thing I will never forgive someone for doing...I am to shy of a person to break up with her though, so I basiclly broke the chain she had on me and then she broke up with me a few days later...Oops...Back to the topic now, As I was saying before, I am not putting much thought into, 'cause it was one of those things where I didn't expect any good resulst, although it would have been nice to get a chance to get to know her better. It wasn't the end of the world, but I am glad there is only 20 days left, 'cause they might be a little akward if you know what I mean
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Well, basically you look on this one board that has everybody in the class (6 periods of them) They are each separated into each different type of personality...And you pick a person, then the teacher asked then if they were willing to give their number, then you either got their number or didn't...Then you were supposed to call, keeping your identity a secret, then go on a date that lasted atleast 1 1/2 hours...
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'ight, so for my sociology class we had the chance to ask someone from another class period out on a date. So I had chosen someone who I think there was a mutual conection because we had another class together and the basic you look they look away type deal, with the occational lock eyes and smile...Well, when it came time to call I got "Cold Feet"...Since I never really call people (I have maybe spent 2 hours of my 17 years that I have been alive, on the phone) and on top of it I was calling a very attractive female, female non the less...Well, the day before we had to turn in a picture of the date and a summary for extra credit, I finally worked up enough nerve to call her, (I was not allowed to say my name since it was supposed to be a blind date, kinda) So we talked for a few minutes, the normal, How are you doing, How's your team in the class doing, etc. etc...then she said "I have to be at work at 6" So that left me about 3 hours to work in something...Well, after about five minutes, there was about a 3 second pause 'cause I was thinking of exactaly what the heck I was going to say, since I had never been in this kinda situation before, then I began with "So...Aaa" then I hear *Click*...And she either hung up or giving her the benifit of the doubt, her battery died, well, that was thursday and there has been no returned call...Any suggestions on what I should have done different if any, and whether or not to confront her in class...
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Well, I don't think it worked, so it looks like I don't need to make that decision
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Well, whatever the reason, I don't mind believeing it...But I have moved on, becuase I never can keep track of my life, so I just let everything go on by..
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I wish I could, but I have a class with her in school, and I change my lunch hour to be with her, and now I am stuck...
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So, me and my first g/f broke up about a week ago today, and the reason I got from it was she just did not have the same antisipation feeling anymore...But she still loves me...Should I be confused as I am right now, and what steps should I take from here...We are still pretty good friends, I just don't know what to do...
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Okay, so I went with the not telling her parents, I am in love with Mel more than ever, but I need some advice on what to do when she can start dating...Although it is not until Feb. 16th, I thought it would be better to start thinking about what I should tell her parents n' such...Any help would be greatly appreciated
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I have been talking with her recently, more like hinting at it, and she always gets very uncomfortable when I bring it up...I really don't want to push her to tell them, but I really don't like lying to her parents...But since they kinda don't know I guess I am not really lying, but I still feel really bad.
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Well, I wanted to tell her parents from the start, after she told me that she had to be sixteen... But it think now is too late...Crap, this sucks...I wish she would have told me she had to be 16 before she said yes... NEW INFORMATION!!! I have resently found out, that if her mother knows that I like her, she will try to cut off any communication from me...She will get my number blocked, and delete aim from their computer...Her mom is like crazy
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Well, I have meet the love of my life, we had our first kiss, and my first kiss monday, the only real obstacle are her parents. Well, me and my g/f are 1 year and 5 months apart, her mother said that she can not date until she is sixteen, that is 8 months away. That means, that we can not be with eachother, until her birthday. Not to mention that her mom has confronted her, becuase obviously, she is not that stupid, I knew that she would catch on. Any suggestions on what we should do?