Smitty

The only way to absolutley find out is to ask him yourself.

If a girl wears a ring on her ring finger on her left hand, does that necessarily mean that she is seeing someone?

exactly...

I actually disagree with Alabamas statement...its just a bad photo you leaned in to far.. for the shot...and the flash whitened your face.

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Ok, First, I want to say that I really appreciate all the advice you guys have given me so far. I've decided to put her in the back of my mind for now, and just see what happens in the future. However, here's the little twist to my story, Before I had become "attracted to this girl," I was trying to get to know her best friend. I've got to say that we get along pretty well. Even some of my friends have told me maybe I should try to get to know her more instead of the girl I can't seem to talk to....But the thing is I feel this odd connection between the girl that ignores me. I mean, ok maybe I'm thinking to much...but I feel if i was to persue things with her best friend, it may make it seem like I'm trying to make her jealous or something (that is if she does like me?) And I feel somehow I could ruin things both ways. Should I be concerned about this...or just go for it? I mean, I think her best friend may be interested in me...she smiles at me a lot and will actually "talk" to me..Like there have been many times this year we have passed each other in the hall and we have always smiled at each other. and on occasions when we talk she will twirl her hair...(I heard this is a sign of interest is that true?)

Wow...I read that all and I'd have to say you are very similar to me and your situation is also. Theres only one thing that I know thats better in your situation and that is her smile! If she's smiling at you thats a definatley a sign shes interested...and for 20 seconds (sounds to me like she was trying to get your attention =0) As for the days she seems to ignore you, I wish I could help you there but it happens to me also and I don't understand... I think it may be because she finds it so hard for you two to talk to each other and doesn't know how to "break the ice". I say just talk to her...you gotta get over your shyness or nothing will happen..and from experience if you let this go on(just the staring back and forth)...it will only become difficult on your part GoodLuck

Hope she shows up =/

grrr it posted double

Ok...heres my take I'm shy myself, but I have found out that it gets you absoultley no where. The only way anything is going to happen is if one of you "breaks the ice" as they call it. Don't worry about the 7 weeks thing...Hell, I went nearly a year before I spoke to a girl I liked. You just have to be confident, its one of the things girls like. Heres my suggestion, next time you have class with her, catch her eye and don't look away. Then pass her a smile...if she smiles back your in. But the thing is you have to talk to her right away..plan it out if you have to..say something like "how are you doing in this class?" along that line. Make sure its an open ended question though. Oh, and if she doesnt smile back, don't be discouraged Goodluck

Just do it yourself...she's given you all the clues, what do you have to lose?

Metallica...whats with the triple posting LOL your gonna have like more posts than anyone if ya keep that up (and i thought double posting was bad heh) j/k

If you like her just talk to her...like dre_7 said, isnt the objective to let her know your interested also? Let us know how it goes =0 Good luck

First, sit down and ask yourself "Do I really love her?" I'd have to say that falling for a girl and thinking you love her in a week is a bit fast...I think your just infatuated. My suggestion is to just take some time and realize which girl you wont more...try to get to know #1 just in case #2 doesnt work out for you.

well if he told you "you have a nice *beep* then definitely he's into you". I'd say just choose what path you think is best. As for the other guy kissing your friend...just forget about it and don't let it get to you..

Interesting question ...first I'm going to say that all my situations throughout my life have begun through some sort of "eye contact" and they've all ended up awkward. Take first my situation in middle school...I was attracted to this girl and we talked a lot, but then I fell in love with her and we never talked again. In High School 10th grade I became attracted to a girl and heres that story link removed Havent talk to her since may 22nd of last year And now, I've fallen for this girl in my math class..and we have not yet actually had a decent conversation...We just share quick eye contact all the time, and whenever i do try to talk to her she seems avoidant...you can read that story here thread title is "Ignoring me..is this a bad sign?"

I have to admit, you act very similar to me. I'd say next time just don't be so persistent. The note was a great idea- it informed her you were interested, but I believe you should have given her some time to figure out what she wants. Reading this kinda reminded me of my current situation and reading the result even made me feel worse...I do hope things work out for you though Good Luck

not a little...a lot. As for how long it lasts, about 1-2 seconds I'm not sure on the signs of interest...maybe someone can help me out there. How can I tell if she likes me if we don't even talk?

ok...when i notice that she is looking at me and i look at her...one of us usually looks away quickly. However, there have been times when I have sensed her looking in my direction looked over and she was! Of course, that happens all the time. As for the short answers she gave me...when we were walking she really didnt walk away from me...but did seem a little avoidant. its really confusing...none of my friends have given me any good suggestions...but there are times when I feel I've developed feelings for her as odd as this situation sounds....I mean over this past year, I've gotten to know some things about her by sitting by her at lunch. (I'm friends with her friends) I've come to find out we have a lot in common...the only thing we don't- Is the fact that we cant communicate?!!!!!?

Most people would think that if someone ignores you, its definitely a sign that their not interested. However, this is really confusing me and my friends can't seem to understand the situation either. To start off, I want to say that earlier this school year I became attracted to this girl in my advanced math class. The first time our eyes met I felt this instant attraction. However, I tried not to let our eyes meet obsessively because I had previously been in a situation that started the same way and didnt go so well. Because of this...I decided that I'd try to talk to her right away. So one day after class I went right up to her and asked her "how she was doing in math". She just responded "ok" and didnt ask me anything...I found that quite odd because it appeared she was interested in me in the way she looked at me. So anyways weeks passed...and I soon found her staring at me again constantly...I tried to avoid it...but I soon started to fall for her... Over this past year, I've tried numerous times to talk to her (strike any type of converstation)...even have written her a letter telling her that I'd like to get to know her...but she doesnt respond. and just recently she flat out ignored me when i asked her a question- so now I've decided to ignore her also...but now she seems like shes depressed or something...and shes still staring at me with those ever so beautiful eyes. Can anyone explain this? Is she maybe shy? interested? or not interested at all?

Hey, I'm sure I can help you out here considering I'm pretty much a quiet and reserved guy myself. I want to let you know that most likely he's using the other girl as a way to get to know you...or let you see his personality that is. Personally, if i find it difficult to talk to a girl I'm really interested in...I usually say nothing at all. Sounds to me, that he's probably attracted to you, just unsure of what to really say to you. My suggestion is to pick up on what he and the other girl are talking about and start a conversation from there. Try to get to know him that way or just call him.

I really hope things work out for you, let us know what happens

talk to her