dimaki

Tell her the truth. That you care about her and what happens to her. Tell her that she doesn't have to give in to be liked by men, if those are the types of men that will like her, they're not worth it. She'll get a more respectable man by waiting longer.

I'm in Ohio.

I'm a little nervous. I told him how I USED to have a crush on him, he said he never knew. I'm not sure if he got the hint tonight, his friend mentioned that I was pretty and he agreed. The only thing I got from him was that he said "I wish you didn't work that shift". I'm just in a rut with the other guy. I have a feeling I should go for it but I'm also afraid of missing the other one...

I was right, Canada...

I'm confused. My boyfriend and I broke up. I talk to him and see him a little bit. He had said he wanted space and I dumped him. I've already posted on this. I know he's got plans on doing what he wants. Well, ironically a friend of mine moved back to town, basically just about the same day we broke up. I got an email today telling me he was here and asked for my number and gave me his. I called him. I felt like I was interrupting and told him to call me when he wasn't busy. He called about 10 minutes later. We chatted and I ended up going to see him. Nothing happened. His friend was there most of the time. He treated me really well. He put on all of my favorite music. We talked about back when we were friends before. He took a picture of me and had his friend take one of us. Here's the thing. I used to have a crush on him, but we met 10 years ago. I have to say I still sort of have a crush. The other thing, the conversation was 10 times better than the b.f./ex that I have. He's going to school, my ex is not. He has a lot going for him. But, I don't know what he thinks of me. I gave him a hug goodbye and he didn't really let go. I didn't know if I should kiss him or not. He just broke up with a girl. He moved here and they broke up, so basically we broke up with our s/o's the same day. I like him, and I have a feeling if I don't do something I'll kick myself in the ass a few years for now. I don't know if I should just be blunt, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. On the other hand I don't want him to be a re-bound or get caught up in a messy break up where I might get suckered into seeing the ex again, something like that. I'm sort of at a fork in the road and not sure what to do. What would I like to do? Kiss him, but that's besides the point... what do you think?

Where the hell are you? I keep seeing these posts about break-ups and you love the women so much, do stuff for them etc, I don't see men like that around here. Are you all in another country? Just curious.

This just happened recently? Most of the time people worry when their girlfriend is late. I wouldn't worry about it right now unless she says she's late, etc. Let this be a lesson though. Always use a condom. There will be times from now you'll do this again, learn from this and don't worry for now.

I'm new here, don't know much about you if you're here often and haven't looked. But I assume you're young. I assume she doesn't believe you love her. Try the pregnancy test before worrying much further. Sometimes stress will delay these things, sometimes women use this to scare the man and make them stay. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm saying don't worry until you have to. In the mean time, if you want to show your love, perhaps buy some flowers or get a card. Give her a kiss. But you shouldn't have to convince her.

I have been dating a guy for about a year and a half. It's been sort of rocky. Lately we have been fighting. We have broken up a couple times before and I loved him and took him back. I'm 26 but I feel like I'm 16 tonight. Sunday I was over at his apartment and we were getting along well. He had some drinks and we started talking. He said that he wanted to have some time apart and suggested we be friends for a bit. I know that means he's interested in some other woman(en). I said, I don't mind a break but if your intention is to see other women and get some and expect me to come back, I don't play those games and it ended with me breaking up with him. He couldn't give me a clear answer on what his intentions were so I gave him a straight answer on what I was about. The next day he needed a favor and called me. I'm sorry that was Sunday, Saturday we broke up. Sunday he needed a ride to work, his car is broke down, I took him. Monday night he invited me over for dinner. I ate and left. Tonight, Tuesday, he called me in the morning. He said good morning, we talked a couple times in the day. He hinted that he might see a girl later in the evening. I said, well if it's worth it go on, but basically don't try to get me back. He calls tonight, tells me there are some people there, including -the- girl, and basically invited me over. It was normal until that point. So really, he wanted to see other people, and for some reason called to tell me about it. Did he really expect me to come over? Did he expect me to get jealous? Was I supposed to jump up and go beat her up? What was he possibly expecting out of that converstation? He said "I told you I would call you!" Umm ok, there's a difference in just calling to say hi and calling me to rub something in my face. I'm a little confused on this situation. Don't bother telling me what a jerk he is, I know that. What was his motive to calling me and inviting me over? I'm getting the feeling he wanted me to go over there and either scare her off or mark my territory. Either way I'm not going but I'm lost. What's going on?