virgo827

I say you just leave it alone. He says he is leaving, LET HIM LEAVE!!! He hurt you. He doesnt deserve the satisfaction of trying to make right between the two of you. You let him back into your life, he would probably find a way to stomp all over you, AGAIN! Leaving you feeling worse than you did before. Whatever he is dealing with personally is his problem. Get on with YOUR life.

I think you should try to wait a little longer before you tell him anything texted or in person. Youre enjoying yourself now. You dont know how he will react and I know you dont want to spoil anything if there is something. He may not feel the same, not yet at least.

Its really not that big of deal. I am a dental assistant and I had my wisdom teeth removed 2 years ago. I didnt have any complications and I was back to work in 3 days. I could have went back sooner but I deserved a little vaca. As belladonna said, dont use a straw, smoke, or rinse and spit to vigorously. Your clots need to be there to speed up the healing process. You will definitely have "holes" where the teeth were removed for months to follow. Eating Jell-o will help because it aids in bone regrowth. You will also need to tend to your sites more attentively because as you start to eat solid food again, it can get trapped in the sockets causing a VERY VERY foul smell. If you do have some swelling cold compresses should help. Good Luck!

god bless you all!! I wish I would have waited. Now I have a son. I wouldnt give my son up for the world, but life would be much easier if Id just waited.

I personally think its totally natural to feel the way you are. Its hard to "know" if a relationship is going to work out or not. i guess thats the nature of the beast. I hope it does work ouk out for you. Good luck

thank you all for your inputs. I didnt smoke during my pregancy and he has never accused me of that so I dont think he thinks I did. he doesnt act controlling when it comes to other things. I can basically do as I please. His mother and I are very close. He confided in her his feelings about the situation. She told me he wasnt quite "mad" about the issue, but he just didnt want me to pick up the habit again. He isnt treating me any different as of today, I think he realizes that it was a just a moment of "relapse" and that I am not picking up the habit aagin. I told him I was going over my girlfriends house today. He didnt object. I think he just said that out of anger. I stated, i thank you all for your replies.

I know your situation all too well. It is definitely not worth your pain and suffering. As previously stated in another reply crack cocaine is a terrible drug and it is one of the hardest to quit. it is not only an addiction but a disease. It changes the way a person thinks, carries themselves, and the way a person treats others. DO NOT GO BACK. It will hurt you more than you know. If you really love her you will let her go. Its going to be hard. But its what has to be done for your own well-being. Take care of yourself

When I met my boyfriend last July, I was a smoker. He told me he didnt like the fact that I smoked cigarettes, but he liked me as a person so he continued our courtship. About 2 months into our relationship I quit. A week later I found out I was pregnant. After our son was born, he became ill and was hospitalized for 3 days. ( he is okay now )During his hospitalization, I started smoking to relieve my stress. I do not consider myself a "smoker" but I do occasionally "hit" a cigarette. My boyfriend found out and now says that he cannot trust me. He says that I am sneaking to smoke so I must be sneaking to do other things. I have never cheated on him and I am open about everything in our relationship. I didnt reveal to him that I was smoking again because I feared his reaction. He is very upset and insecure now because of this. I dont plan on picking up the habit and I feel he is being unreasonable when he acts insecure. He knows that he can trust me when it comes to infidelity, but he insists that I am "doing other things" because I withheld the fact that I smoke occasionally, mainly when I drink alcohol I smoke but not around him. I feel like he is trying to control me, telling me that I cannot hang with my bestfriend of 15 years because she smokes. I feel like I have everything under control. I havent smoked in 2 weeks but he insists that I have. what should I do??