I agree, it's such a cop-out. I hate it when they say that. My ex said that to me too. The last night we talked, when he told me he was no longer in love, he told me that if he were to meet a "woman exponentially the woman I am, and that woman probably does not exist", then he would think about being in another relationship and that he wants to be celibate right now. He also said that he thinks very highly of me. But its funny, because during that conversation he would compliment other women specifically (i.e. this girl is confident...and that girl doesn't take sh*t from anyone, etc) but for me it's these stupid, generic compliments. Oh and he also thinks I compare myself to his ex. I've never even met her, all I asked him about her was why they got along so well (to find out why he & I don't).
And he said I continuously pointed out to him how much of a better person I am than him (which I did not), and he said he agrees I am, but he thinks it's funny that I feel the need to do that. When I told him I don't think that I am a better person, and he continued to say I was, I asked him how exactly I was a better person. He couldn't think of anything right away and said, oh you are more generous than me.
So later during the conversation when he said the thing about meeting a woman exponentially the woman I am, I said to him, "I don't believe you mean that because I am so, so great of a woman yet you don't want to be with me. It's like, you have a really good heart, and you're generous and stuff, but I don't want to be with you, thanks though."
So annoying!