cant-stop-loving-her

You can read the last post (Ithink i may be going sumwehere. - its still in the top 10 in the dating and shy people section..)... I know not many of you guyz are online right now, but the thing is, We have 2 hours (even less now) of school left adn after that i wont be seeng her until 2 weeks.. And today, she came up to me and said thanks for ur gift. We talked a bit bout school and stuff.. But nothing else. She seemed to be expecting me to say sumthing.. SO, should i ask her out today...???

The thing is, there are other things that effect everything more than it seems.. First of all, we have completely different group of friends and although I do hang around with a couple of her (guys and girls) friends, I know it wont be easy for us if we did get together.. But, I saw a spark of interest in her today and hopefully, things will turn out for the best.. Cuz, today when I gave her the gift, a lot of people saw and will question it tomorrow.. All I can tell them is it was a Christmas present and with any luck, it will be forgotten…

Welll… I have been posting about this girl for the past 8 or so months.. Where I gave her a strong letter and she told me it wont be a good idea (I ad given her an ok one b4 andd we talked briefly – it went well - but it was only after the second we stopped talking..) Every one on here told me to let her go and move on.. Of course I tried that but she isn’t sum1 I could let go easily (after having known her for 3 years..), and today, this is what happened.. ME: Hey, xxxxxx, umm, I have sumthing for you. Can I give it to you after school.. I smiled and she actually laughed quite comfortably. HER: Hi. Sure, where do you want to meet. ME: I told her a place nearby.. HER: Ok. C u then.. >>> ME: Hey, this is sumthing for Christmas. (It was a watch with changeable wrist bands and different coloured tops…) HER: Oh, for Christmas.. I’ll open it on the way home then.. (I think she was expecting sumthing else….. or maybe that’s just me..) ME: YEA, no problem… C u 2morrow then.. And then I came home…… x ) Soo, I’m not taking this anywhere fast. But I was quite surprised by the way she took it as well.. So, what should I do tomorrow..

Acually i gave her 2 lestter.. the first one... was PERFECT!! we talked briefly after that but then i made a big mistake and told her i liked her a lot in the second one, after which she told me it wont be a good idea... We havent talked since...

If there was one thing I could ask of you, It would be to forget you read that letter. That's all, xxxxxx. I want to tell her just to not judge me based on sum things i said in a letter to her..... I am giving her a christmas card a with gift and thought to write this in the card...

Good idea except she already knows and i dont want to tell her again... but i want to stay away from jewlry...

Hey guys I saw the thread about present and gift ideas last week but I cant seem to find it now.. Anyhowz, I have a sort of a differerent situation.. In our school we did this secret santa thing where every1 put their name in a box and picked out sum1 elses at the end. No1 knew who had picked their name or whose they had picked. Whats supposed to happen is that at the end of next week, each one of us has to buy the person we picked, a present and put it under the Christmas tree in our Common Room. So, they wont know who gave them the present. BUT, there’s a girl I really like and she knows it (she told me we cant be together – but its not like she hates me or anything, I just did sumthing she didn’t like and it was over but she still likes me as well, time just wasn’t on our side… hope that makes sense). Well, my friend got her name (he knows that I like her ) but bcz one of the guys who arranged this all knows what every1 got, we cant switch. So, I’ll still buy her sumthing and leave it under the tree (so she’ll have 2 presents).. The problem is what should I get her???!!!??? Cuz I’m buying her some jewelry for her birthday in a few months and would like something nice for Christmas… So what should a guy get a girl in this situation and can any1 plz post a link to the sticky thread that was on the main page about a week ago.. Thaxx a lot.. **oh, and i'm pretty sure this is the wrong place to put this but i seriously couldnt find any place else..lol

I am not exactly with her.. Cuz when I told her that i liked her, she was already had a bf but did talk to me and i did stand a chance. but then we had a long break in which i didnt see her, since then we havent spoken, though i still c her at school.. We are both going off to different uni's in a couple of months - actually a month after her birthday, so i just wanted to get her sumthing nice so she remembers me cuz we will probably meet in a few years.. i know thats a LOOONG shot but i just like her a lot and she is sum1 special to me - so it means a lot... I dont expect a relationship or dont even want that, but having known her for 4 years (not close friends but classmates sort of thing...), I cant say goodbye without making her feel special.. hope that makes sense...lol..

I didnt know where to put this.. Hope its ok here/.. I'm getting a birthday present for a girl that i like. And its also a sort of a goodbye present... I 've looked at link removed and they have some good stuff, except that I dont know what material is best. I dont like gold and some friends told me diamond isnt a good idea right now. But what other material is good and do any of you guys have another site that sells this sort of stuff..

Can any1 think of a rhyming word to "back" that would mean sumthing like "day, afternoon, morning"..?? Bcuz, i wanted to fit it in with these lines: If I took you back, Back to that beautiful April day, When you heard me say, Happy Birthday, ....

I am trying to make this iinto a song.. any mistakes or tips to make it better.. Cuz a friend is going to write the music to it and another guy is going to sing it, and I want to dedicate it to a girl.. I used to hope for us to be, But all hope is fading away, Day by Day, All I’m left with is a few memories, And a shattered dream, To live on for the rest of my life, No matter where life finds me, You will always have special place in my heart, Now, there’s no use in even hoping, You took it all away, Those last words you said, Will haunt me forever, And I know, When it comes to you,. Beautiful has no meaning, Cuz you urself mean beautiful, I just don’t know why, I still want to call you mine, After all this time, Am I going out of my mind, Or did we really have a connection, Though that doesn’t seem likely, After your blind rejection, You just slammed the door on my face, Left no chance for the next phase, Now, I wish I‘d pushed you, Given you another clue, Shown you how much I care, You could’ve given my love a try, But now all I can do is cry, And hope these tears find a way. Everyday I look for reasons, To get on with life, Ways to leave you behind, But every night, I end up loving you more, Than the day before, What can I do to end this pain? Or is there no end to it? Do I have to wait for you, Or do I have to give up my hopeless hope. To think that we can be,, Just makes me tense, Wondering if you’ll ever see, How true my love truly is, I just keep on dreaming, But all hope is fading, So I guess I’m down, Down to my one last cry, One last try, Before the final good-bye. I can’t believe how easy I let you go, Just cuz you said no, Even though we shared nothing, You are my everything.. thanks

Hey there.. woww.. I have been through ur story .. almost like i was the guy in ur post.. .. actually i wish i was... I really liked this girl that didnt like me back then... I asked her out, got rejected and tried to move on... But now i think she is starting to like me.. I find her loking at me occasionally from a distance, a smile here and then.. But, I feel as a guy, I dont want to ask her out again (or anything like that).. It lowers ur self-respect.. So I've been avoiding her.. waiting for her to make the first move.. I guess, the guy is confused for his feelings towards you.. He may not be easy with you around hhis friends.. hope that helped..

This doesnt have anything to do directly with any girl or love after-effects.. Its just that since the past year or maybe a bit more, I've noticed that I am not the same that I used to be.. I was actually reaaly quick at cathcing facts and being smart (you're wondering where's modesty these days.. yeah???.. lol - but I guess this way u'll understand it better...) but for sum reason, its very hard for me to concentrate on one thing - I keep on drifting on to sumthing else, like when I'm trying to study, I just cant focus on the work.. And its also waaay harder now to memorize stuff - it doesnt stick to my memory.. Any1 out there have ANY sort of iidea what I can do to oversome this ?? Or what not to do... ANYTHING basicallly, cuz I've got A2 exams in bout 2 moths and am MORE behind than i should be...

Welll.. I am not exactly saying I dont like her.. She is sum1 whom I dont think I will ever be able to get over.. but I guess I just need to talk to her to get that satisfaction, cuz right now, as it is going, I am going to be seeing her EVERYDAY, for the next 6-7 months, and I will not be able to go on after that without having a go.. (if that makes sense...) I have found out that she is sort of shy whe talking to people she doesnt know, and she doesnt really know me.... So, taking that point, is there sum way i can act or give a sign to make her feel easy or know that i wouldnt mind talking to her... Keeping in mind that i see her between classes for a 20 - 30 mins twice every schhol day....

umm.... i have no intentoin of asking her out again... (though i didnt "officialy" ask her ot b4 either..) but i just want to be on talking terms with her.. and if she gave me a sign or said we cant be friends, i would take it and stay away but so far she has not done that ...

what does a girl mean when she does these things: 1) i find her looking at me but she turns away when she realizes i've seen her.. 2) when she sees me looking at her first, she DOES look me in the eye for a few seconds and then looks away... 3) she is not trying to talk to me - almost as if waiting for me to go up to her, but dont know what to say to her if i do talk to her..... bcuz she sort of rejected me a few months ago and we havent spoken since.... though we see each other evey day in school... and i admit i still like her A LOT.. i sort of came hard on her (told her i liked her a lot..) and want to say sorry but dont know how..

I put this up in her class and saw her reading it.. It takes a strong person to say sorry, And an even stronger person to forgive. When you forgive, you in no way change the past- But you sure do change the future. You forgive me for liking you too much, And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough. You forgive me for missing you so, And I'll forgive you for being so cold. You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart, And I'll forgive you for not hearing it. You forgive me for finding you so attractive, And I'll forgive you for not noticing. You forgive me for wanting to be with you, And I'll forgive you for avoiding me. You forgive me for being so pathetic, And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it. You forgive me for not being able to let go, And I'll forgive you for never having latched on. You forgive me for having hopes and dreams, And I'll forgive you for crushing them. You forgive me for that 2nd letter And I'll forgive you for the pain you caused me after. Forgiveness brings inner peace. Do we have a deal? Cuz I sure can't go on like this.. From me (I know its been 6 months but yes its me) She tried to talk to me after that but it was bad timing and now we've got a week off classes... So I'll see her next saturday.. hopefully - better luck then.. lol..

Thanx for the kind words.. I have been talking to a lot of people about random things in the past few months and of course it has helped.. But I am thinking of another easier way to get to talk to her.. Since we have a week of mid-term break and I wont be seeing her again till the 28th of this month, should I tell a close friend everything that happened.. I trust him to keep it between us.. cuz then he could talk to her first.. just a straightforward talk that I came to him this week and am very lost and confused about what she wants.. and that when I try to talk to her she turns away and then at times she does try to talk to me as well.. and I have no problem with talking it one-on-one to her.. so at least that is clear to her… is this a gud idea??? and is there sumthing he should or shouldnt say to her??? any advice would be highly appreciated..

Some of u may know my story … Its really long but I don't think necessary to move on now.. Basically, theres this girl who I told that I like her a lot but she had bf at the time and told me it wouldn't work…. Now, after more than 6 months, we are both trying to talk to each other… BUT 1. We're both kind of shy. (especially around each other..). 2. Everytime I try to say sumthing, my lips are SEALED SHUT.. literally.. 3. Everytime she tries to say sumthing, one of us looks away and the moment passes.. Plus, I cant say she likes me as much as I like her but I am definitely NOT saying that she is not interested either.. She IS looking for sum kind of relationship (friends, love... though I'd be happy with anything)… I wrote her a sort of a poem, and I think it worked,.. I just want to go up to her and talk, but that's soo damn HARD… I've been around this site.. and theres lots of threads bout how to start a conversation.. But I need to get TO that point of starting the conv… as in g oing up to her.. …. It may sound silly but I can talk to her once we've said a hi or sumthing.. I managed to get a smile accross though…. how do i get over my nerves and say a hi or anything...

I posted it..though in a classroom.. i removed the first line and added a line.. "You forgive me for that 2nd letter and I'll forgive you for the pain u caused me after.." I saw her reading it .. we havent met since then so i dont know what she thinks about it..

i have just realized sumthing i dont know why i didnt think of b4... she has a very close friend (female) that 'm sure knows bout me and what happenned.. i am very sure that she knows .. so should i talk to her cuz she is really nice and i have talked to her b4... i could tell her the whole story from my point of view and see what she says.. and btw, SHE IS NOT AVOIDING ME ANYMORE.... she looks at me every now and then.. though she still hasnt spoken to me yet.... but you guys shouldnt think that she doensnt want to talk to me anymore... so should i yalk to her friend bout this.. or try to talk to her directly.... it'll be easir for me to talk to her directly though

u see, i cant really open up the wounds cuz they havent healed yet... and the only way do that is to talk it over with her... think bout it.. 5 or 6 months from now.. i am preparing for the final modules of A level exams and i havent spoken a word to her all year... i still see her everyday.. theres no way i will be able to study or focus on anything like i should, if i havent sorted this out... and i cant really say that on myspace cuz that implies that we dont meet each other at school.. well, we have LOADS of chances to talk at school... so i think its better tht i do try to contact her though i am thinking what would be the best way... myspace would probably freak her out again... and i dont want to do that.. so i'll try to do my best to do it in school...

i have started a couple of threads on this already but I still cant find a way to get over it… here's a link to the last one, but basically, she has started to at least look me in the eye after like two weeks of full avoiding any contact… and I've got her myspace account.. i was wondering if i should send her a messege or invite her as a friend.. i know u guys r gonna tell me to stop trying to contact her but the thing is, i can tell she wants to stop this ignoring each other and all as well... even if it means being friends or telling her that i have no more interest in her or whatever... so i am going to go up to her in the following week, and tell her tht she isnt pressured or anything but we can start from the beginning.. but have u guys got any lines or sumthing tht i could use so i dont exactly scare her but get my point accross. About myspace.. i know its not a good idea but i was just considering the worst situation of having no contact left with her... at least i'll have that.. but i really need sumthing to say to her as i am going to talk to her any day now as soon as i get the chance...

ok - even if i do continue to avoid her.. these awkward moments will still continue. its not just me thats feels awkward- its her as well.. cuz we cant help running into each other - afterall theres only like 70 students in the sixth form and its not that big either, for us to hide or sumthing lol.. ; ). anyhow, i'll try to avoid her as long as I can but I guess a time may cum when she decides to get it over with and say sumthin..though i am not going to wait for that..