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  1. blue boy
    Juliette Turner - 'Broken Things' The Clash - 'Train in Vain'
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    Either "insulted" or " disgusted"
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    Well, it's only appropriate I end this thread as I started it ! Something of a microcosm of many relationships (but nort mine !!) Everybody started off feeling positive and full of energy. Developed into warm friendship with precious words and funny little asides. The occasional flirt with jealousy and infidelity as other members briefly came in to air their words; and finally a gradual process of less and less communication !! At least we haven't ended up hating each other ! No, to be serious everybody who has contributed to this thread has been excellent and I would like to thank you warmly. I am flying off for my sex change tomorrow so wish me well - think they have space for a lobotomy as well lgirl !! - "So there it was - merry christmas...." Charlotte
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    That's the girl ! Start showing him how strong YOU are and believe in yourself and remember whenever you are down we are here to support you.
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    I think it's all over ! (apart from the pain and the scars and the loss of self-confidence and the memories and the sleepless nights and the angst and the questions)
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    Mizzy, Really sorry to hear about your break-up. Him giving you hope was cruel - although it just reflects how confused he is. You need to focus on yourself for a change, start being more aloof if he does contact you again, and try and regain the power you have lost. If somebody loves somebody enough nothing will get in the way of it, so the excuse about his 'dream' is a bit immature. The only thing I do know is that being a teacher myself - work can be very stressful sometimes and can even affectyour personality. I am sure you are going through a lot of pain right now , but if you can get through this you can get through anything in life. Please be strong.
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    Thank you lgirl - I feel 'calmer' now !
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    karma karma karma - I have never seen evidence of this karma - we will lose touch with our lovers and we won't even find out what happens to them ! sorry - it is the venting hour again ! newby - we are all here to give you wise counsel and help you, the anger is difficult to deal with - lgirl is the expert in these matters !
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    On a warm beach sipping an expensive cocktail
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    yun yun - I know you are in terribly upsetting situation - a hellish limbo where you probably realise you can't go back; but at the same time can't move on with anybody else. It's strange that I am offering advice as I feel exactly the same. Surely the fact that you are at least 'hit on' by men helps your self-esteem at least though. You must realise that one day you will recover but at the moment your brain is still full of swirling emotions and feelings i.e. like most of at this stage we are somewhat 'irrational' even though we might not admit to it. You really need to try and focus completely on yourself for a while and be selfish. I can guarantee eventually somebody will 'hold' your attention and your heart will start racing again. It won't till you are healing faster. The tough news for us all is that time moves inexorably slowly at the moment. I really hope things improve for you. meanwhile just 'hang' around with the rest of the wandering 'undead' on this site !!
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    I know EXACTLY what each one of you are feeling - there is no feeling like it in the world - you are helpless, frustrated, sad, lonely, lack confidence and see no future. The advice you ahve been given by people is very sound and supportive. I certainly think the faster you can meet new people the better; only then will your self-esteem begin to improve. This site helps in that respect. Care and support each other, and let them know they are good, kind and warm human beings. People who have callously abandoned you are dysfunctional uncompassionate human beings. It's 5 months for me - and the pain does lessen oh soooo gradually - it is ok to be angry so don't worry. I know when you log off from this site you become weaker; however you are still breathing, there is a beautiful big, wide world out there, with lovely men and women. Your star will shine brightly again and I wish you all lots of great things, which WILL one day happen.
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    January is SUCH a depressing month - it will be Spring before we all start to be reborn I feel. How's everybody doing out there ? If we could all turn the clocks back 12 months what would we do ? Just musing (not amusing) Warmastoast - what's happening with you ?
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    1. It's too late - I've booked an appointment and my name shall be Charlotte ! 2. I thought lgirl said 'unconditional love' did exist. Are you saying it doesn't . Anyway I hate all these cliches - ACTIONS speak louder than words. A girl once left me and told me a guy had flattered her into leaving me - I told her not to be deceived - she didn't listen but she was eventually hurt. 3. Dumping at xmas is really, really unforgiveable and speaks volumes of the person doing it ! I can guarantee you WILL see Prague Newby and that you will have a great time when you are there. 4. You have always been sane and level-headed and good - they have destroyed your self-esteem but all of us here will make sure it returns. yours faithfully, Charlotte !
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    Welcome Warmastoast ! I agree with lgirl ( I have learned from her !) Having been 'used' and manipulated myself for quite a while yet always being 'forgiving' it is time to stand up for yourself. The 'reverse psychology' is the way to go - you have to test her. I mean how is the future going to pan out if this continues - there will be no future unless this is stopped and the problem addressed right now. You will have to be strong - don't let her control the situation. I think you get the lot for that price lgirl - not JOKING lol ! Why would I want to be a woman ? I just think they are generally nicer human beings than men, and I also think they are the ones who have the real power. Don't know what I'd call myself though !
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    Trying to get my head round that one - is there such a thing as 'unconditional love' ? It's emotionally and mentally exhausting trying to figure it all out. You can get a sex change in Bangkok for £1500. I'm seriously considering it.
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