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He's done it again this morning and yday morning, anyone else not see this as disrespectful and lying. If your with someone why feel the need to lust over some other womans body. Its harsh, makes me feel insecure, I feel rock bottom low about myself. Plz any input of what I can say?

He can't be dissatisfied, I give him sex whenever he wants it. At times I'm dissatisfied coz he'll just have a wank and then thats it, Im not satisfied. He's done this a few times to me. And every single morning doesn't stop to think about whether I might want it just goes straight downstairs and has a wank over other girls on myspace the ones posing half naked, I think to myself, well you might aswell just have sex with her!! I think thats downright disrespectful to be honest, I'm sure he wouldnt like it if I got myself off over the blokes on there!! I'm mature for my age thank you. He's 21. Everything in our relationship is fine apart from that, he treats me VERY well. Has never laid a finger on me. I'm not trying to change him, all I said to him was I didn't like it he said he wouldn't do it again, he said it! I didn't force him to. He does hide it coz he knows I don't like it, but I thought if you love someone and want to be with them didn't wanna hurt them you simply wouldn't do it, if he's willing to risk the relationship over some girls on myspace, its silly. I dont want to finish with him coz I love him but I wanted advice on how to tell him and this time I'll tell him its the last time, coz I can't handle it, if he wants to carry on thats fine I'll go I really can't help how I feel! So please how can I tell him I know about it what can I say?

Hey guys. Bascially, I been with my bf almost a year we live together at the moment. During this time, he was chatting dirty to girls on funky which is a bit like myspace just profiles and he said he wouldn't do it again, but he did and using chatrooms, now before he said he just went to a friendly chat but I know him I'm not that dumb. The second time he kept looking at porn I said I didnt like it, he said he wouldn't do it again, but he did do it again coz his comp is down at the min so we using mine, and he didnt used to delete history before I saw what he was going on, after he said he wouldnt. I got pissed off so thats the 4th time he said he would stop doing it, and now he deletes history but there have been a few times he obviously forgot and I seen searches on google for big breasts etc. Talk about make me feel insecure I told him this. He wouldnt do it again apparently. So thats the 5th time right! He's now signed up to myspace he only has friends on his list yeah but I seen in history before hes lookin at loads of girls profiles you know the type posing half naked like perfect girls Im not exactly slim slim and dont have large boobs talk about make me feel insecure again, I told him i know what hes doing..ok he wont do it again! but you know the browse users page well that stays on the last search that was made and its always on women, I set it to search both at my old postcode, but whenver I come back to it its set to women again he deletes history but obviously doesnt realise that search bar stays at last search whether you close the page or not! I've known hes been doing this for ages he deleting history but for a while Ive been setting it to browse both at this postcode and my old postcode I come back to it after hes been on history gone! search set to women! Lately there have been 2 nights where I wont talk!! I dont know why I just dont know how to tell him and Im not a very confident person! The first night we were in bed i faced other way he said can i have a hug i said no he said why i said i dont want to, he kept on I wouldnt tell him bascially I had had enough of talking about it its been enough times now. He got pissed off and slept on floor! 2nd night I done it again wouldnt tell him, and he got pissed off, grabbed me turned me over and held me down tight and said tell me like nearly shouting but not. he slept downstairs that night. bascialyl tell me if im being paranoid. is it harsh or not!? Please help am fed up!

PLz Pls help with my last post just a right or its wrong will do. Before he comes home from work, I just wanna know whether Im being silly. I dont think I am but hey...?

I'm having the same trouble at the moment. Can someone clarify its right or wrong?? He's searchin women on myspace he thinks I don't know I do know! The Browse members thing stays as the last search n its always set to women i set it search both sexes in my area and i come back to it its been changed back to all women! And now he always deletes history after hes been on computer. He onyl does all this when Im either in bed or not in the room bascially!! Hes had a history of searchin porn, chatting dirty to girls, searchin myspace girls in underwear n that (tlk about make me feel insecure) but the myspce thing hes obv still doing. And he must be going on something else to delete history everytime!!! Its the 6th time in our relationship that he said he'll stop it but he hasnt!!! I mean the girls he searches it makes me feel inecure yet he knows all of this!! Why does he still do it, I live with him in notts i wlive in west sussex like 4 hours drive away, I feel ike sayin im ready to walk. im only a fone call away from home. It might make him realise. 1st. Chattin dirty to girls 2nd. same 3rd. porn 4th. (im not saying but it was VERY wrong) 5th. myspace 6th. myspace But cna someone tell me if Im bein paranoid or its normal...coz i dont think it is...i wouldnt go n search aload of men when im in aloving relationship! n fantasise over them!! its hurting me!

Forgot to say we've been together just over 7 months. I love him more than anything, but when he says he wont do it and does, all the trust goes! And I just feel angry and very upset! When I have caught him doing it or seen conversations, I just feel like I hate him, but I don't!!

Ta guys. I thought it was wrong, I just needed to make sure I wasn't being over paranoid! It does it bloody hurts, specially when the girls I seen on his list aren't as ugly as me lol! Makes me feel very unattractive. I thought of it as Online cheating, still is a way of cheating online or not. Thanks people.

Just a yes or no question! Just want an answer whether it is right or wrong, my bf is upstairs on his comp im downstairs on mine. We've just moved into a house together. He used to chat dirty to girls on the internet the first time i was in tears and he said he wouldnt do it again, he done it again and said he wouldnt do it again!! Ive never even dreamed of doing it to him. But it seems now he tries to get rid of me when he's on his comp chatting on MSN. So i just go anyway. But I think he's still doing it. Basically I wanna know if it is right to talk dirty to someone on the internet when you have a partner? We have sex alot I dont see why he needs to do it? Right or Wrong of him to do it?? Plzz help thanks guys. xx

Tis the other way round for me, I can come everytime during sex when I'm on top, but I can't come when he fingers me... Which I wish I could. I've read a few posts n a few things and it seems quite alot of women can't come during intercourse but can during foreplay..I am happy I can come during intercourse lol but why can't I come when he fingers me? He isn't doing it wrong coz I can't even do it...

Lol, don't worry about it. I always tend to do that in the doggie position, we just laugh about it. Just laugh at yourself, you'll get used to it lol!

Thanks raineysong. How numb does it make your bum go? Lol! I read somewhere its not a good idea to use that...?

My boyfriend is funny, thats something I love in a guy coz I like a good laugh, and we can joke about things and find it hilarious, and also It feels so right, I feel very comfortable with him, and I haven't with any of my other bfs. We just clicked. He's gone away up North for a while to look for a place to live for us and a job for himself, but he hasnt found a job yet its been nearly a week and I am SOOO missing him right now lol. He said if he doesnt find anything within the next 2 weeks he's coming home coz he misses me.

Its strange actually I dno I never seem to call my bf by his first name, lol, I don't know why, sometimes I do. But otherwise its 'love' lol! And he calls me babe, he'll sometimes use my name like me lol. I think its weird. :S

I have the same problem. We've tried alot of positions and I can only cum when I'm on top. I would like to hear what other people suggest...

I'm sorry to here that coollady1957. A few weeks back I was very annoyed at my bf for going onto Funky (A thing like myspace, you have a profile can chat etc) and he was writing messages to people, and hiding it from me, he shouldnt have to hide anything I blew my lid and he said he's sorry he won't do it again but he said that the last time, he wanted to cancel his account but theres no way to do it on there, I was annoyed about that too, coz I know if its still there and he gets an email saying he has a message, he might look again n it'll start again!! I just hope it doesn't. I said why were you hiding it from me then, what were you saying? And it was him asking girls what there into sexually, and they were replying. Why bother asking other girls what they're into, why should he need to know that and hide it from me, it really hurt me! Isn't that called online cheating?? Coz he was hiding it, and talking sexually to other girls...?