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  1. AlwaysNeedHelp
    heeeeeeeeey, i told her i told her i like u .... Well she looks interested but i didnt ask her directly is she interested or not ... i just told her i like u and then i changed the subject... i dont wanna make her get scared u know.. i would take it easy.. The reason itold her, is that she really gave me courage to say it.. she said u r actingweird and stuff like that as if she dont know... she wanted to hear it from me.. After i told her, she seemed fine u know.. Like if someone told me i like u and i dont.. i really wont act normally with her.. i would try to say no in a good way..She didnt do that she acted noramlly as if she is happy or somethihng liek that.. well that what i felt... it was on msn... Everysentence she wrote had this smily face lol so what do u think? ohh i told her i cant believe it.. well the ball in her court right now right ?
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    i dont think so,, but it is well know that worrying alot causes some signs like that.. I just wanna know if there is hope it could return again ?
  3. AlwaysNeedHelp
    and if she said no ?
  4. AlwaysNeedHelp
    there is one story i like it could help u... A student of a zen master, went to the master and told him: i cant concentrate in meditation, ialways thinking about something else and i cant really get deep into it i feel so bad.. so the master just told him: it will pass and left. After 2 weeks the student came again to the master and told him: master, i now can concentrate very good in meditation and really iam the best now.. I could stay focused for a long time... The master just told him: it will pass.. So what u need to learn from this story is that there is nothing constant in life except change.. everything goes up and down.. u just have not to give up.. u need to have a burning spirit which can handle anything.. u need to have a burning heart.. It is just a battle of wills. Life is full of rise and falls, u can feel that ur life is all (falls) but its ok .. believe me it will pass.. if also u believe in god, u have to ask him and let him help u.. he is the most powerful.. hope u feel better
  5. AlwaysNeedHelp
    actually from exams and love so does this kind return to its normal condition after the reason is removed ?
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    hi, I have a problem which really makes me sad.. i woke up and i found there is a part in my back head which is bold.. not bold at all but like a small line with no much hair in it .. A doctor said without actually seeing me that it could be resulted from my weak immunity... for ur knoweldge iam suffering now alot of worry so this could be the reason too.. Well my question is : is this type could return to its normal condition alone or does it need a medecine or what ? thanks for advance
  7. AlwaysNeedHelp
    i asked a friend to c whether she has interest or not ... is that a good thing to do ? as backstreetboys say : i pray for this heart to be unbroken lol
  8. AlwaysNeedHelp
    ok shysoul , thanks i will try to ask her.
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    yeah u r right shysoul, iam making my self crazy.. actually iam crazy now.. i got so tired from this.. i dont eat alot as before and i feel always that feeling before an exam lol.. i dont think i will ask her srry but i think i should not think that much about her bec really it is destoying my life.. so now i need ur advice to stop making my self feel that painful feeling ? Like iam always worried and thinking about her.. i dont know what to do iam loooost
  10. AlwaysNeedHelp
    i asked her on msn ? i told her i need ur phone number, then she said give me yours ? anyone would reply like that ? doesnt mean she likes me ! could be just a friendly reply dont know
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    something else to say, i got her number maybe just to have her number u know ? normally like bec we are with each other in lectures and stuff so normally i should have her number, doesnt necessary mean that iam going to ask her out... Does anyone ask for a girl's number means he will ask her out ? i really dont wanna rush things what do u think
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    lool ohh man u made me laught alot . u made me look like an idiot, well actually iam . anyways, ask her out ? how ? i cant lol really i cant stop laughting while iam writing now hehehe. How should i ask her out and risk with my feelings ? dont u think i should wait a little bit ? maybe i know more things about her ? i will travel after we finish college by a week.. so do u think i ask her out in this week ? or wait till i come back and see what happens next ? hhehehe iam sooo stupid 8)
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    i got the phone number , but i really dont know what am i going to do with it.... for sure i wont ask her out first becasue iam travelling in the vaccation, and second, becasue i wanna do this when we know eacch other more... Today i asked her for her phone number and i got it. she got mine as well.. then what ? i think in my situation, when i asked her for her phone number she should be sure that i love her... so what should i wait from her ? what should i expect from her ? calling me, trying to talk to me more or what ? or i just got her number and she will wait as well for me to do the move ? Like i mean does she have to do something bec i asked her for the number or she just could stay like that without doing anything ?
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    no i didnt mean without a date.. ok i think i wrote it in the wrong way.. we could have a date and everything but i just wanted to say the main thing is to marry her not just hang with her. I dont know how to beging with her, i will ask for her phone number on msn next time.. but iam never sure how she feels
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    this girl is with me in college. we are friends but not close ones. i like her and i dont know here feelings ! As i said i dont want to get embaressed so i just try to talk to her and see how she reacts.. the main aim is to marry her, i dont like this kind of just a boy friend and stuff like that... I want to let her know my feelings and i know her feelings.. When we know the feelings for each other then we would stay like close friends till we graduate and get married ? is that enought ?
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    well i think she knows that i like her already. i did alot of signs to her.. 90 % that she knows.. I always try to talk to her, got her email from a friend and just tried to talk to her. i asked her am being obvious ? she said : in what ? then she said ohh ok i understand lol Anyways i think she knows, what should i expect from her if she likes me back ?
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    ahh i got so tired saying i love her, and iam not sure about her feelings and stuff... So will this problem ever end.. icant go and tell her.. iam afraid i get embaressed if she said no or something.. i wanna know without she knows that i like her.. like i know she likes me without she knows my feelings lol .. Actually our relation is developing ,we talk to eachother more. She also seems more interested but still iam never sure, not even close. Yeah iam big idiot when come to the love stuff.. so should i just stay like this wondering and hoping that time would reveal anything ? wait 4 years when we graduate and propose to her ? will it ever have an end ? and please dont ever tell me to ask her ok ? i will never do that..
  18. AlwaysNeedHelp
    hi guys, This post is great, full of valuable advices, wisdom ,.................BUT Take care, there is something missing.everything must be within limits...Everything if u did alot would have disadvantages.. Water is so important for the body, but u cant drink 10 liters/day.. You cant just act as if u r the great catch, and when she talks to u u ignore her becasue u dont have time for her **** .. You could sum all of these words and advices in a short sentence.. HAVE CONFIDENCE... Yeah u r the great catch, u r the best and all the stuff but dont leave her as a broken machine which u never will look at. You show that u like her, in the same time u should have the confidence which lets any girl like u .. If u used what is written in the post just as it is, she will say.. he dont care for me why should i .... If you are really looking for wisdom, know that everything should be with limits.. Finally have confidence & believe your heart... Ahh on thing, on people who say act as if u r confident and stuff... dont act !!! why the hell u wanna act ? why dont u be a real confident man.. If u can dream it, u can do it !
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    yeah it matters, being tall sometimes makes u confident and looks toughter or something. If i was a girl i would never like someone shorter than me. He must be dominant.. Now and iam a boy i would never date a girl taller than me. I would see myself as her child..
  20. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Good point DN
  21. AlwaysNeedHelp
    Challenges ?? for heaven's sake. No for sure. No if u r talking about girls ! At least iam talking normal people. There are some people who like challenges i agree, but they are few.. In relationships challenges are not a very good idea.
  22. AlwaysNeedHelp
    well in a short sentence.. Depends on the thing she did. For example ur girl slept with someone else. Yeah i would wakeup and i dont love her.. She could tell me u r abig idiot, but i will wake up and still like her .
  23. AlwaysNeedHelp
    yeah i totally agree with u.. I wont ignore her more and i also wont put myself in that situation where iam running after her u know.. I will just act normally with confidence.. Thats what i need confidence. I will treat her completely normally but maybe like one time i can flirt with hr or something. we will c
  24. AlwaysNeedHelp
    ahh what should i say ? here is what i think..As shysoul said u need to believe your heart, trust ur self.. Being confident doesnt mean u have to read books or go these ****sites You dont have to be a good actor to act like u have confidence. Why dont u just have real confidence ??? Why do u need to fake it if u can do it really ? Be yourself, if u r shy try to have more guts and have more confidence.. Summary : why do u have to act as if u r confident, just be real confident.
  25. AlwaysNeedHelp
    hey guys, i only heard 3 people's opinions. I want to hear more of your opinions bec that would really help.
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