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ok, well i just finished talking to her right now on msn.. We were in the same school but didnt know that except when we went to college. So i started talking about this.. that we shared the same school and stuff.. She laughted, so here is what i think from my general view.. my view from above.... She knows that i like her, she likes me but needs to know me better.. Like she dont love me that much but she is interested. SHe still needs some time.. I wont rush things, again i will wait and just act noramally iwth extra confidence and see what happens next

well, i wont ignore her. I will just treat her normally. How could i read her feelings ? Believe me i have the ability to understand people more than u imagine iexpect what people will say ,do and know how they feel mostly all the time. Maybe i will take her phone number, but u know what i know i wont do anythign with it .. I had this idea only also to see how she reacts . ahh I know it difficult to let the girl to the action but i will jusst keep the pace normally as if we are friends. I will wait, maybe time would reveal some of the hidden things. Going out with her and stuff like that are very difficult, So as i said , in alot cases i can judge people easily, so i will trust my heart.. Also we are not in a hurry, still iam 18 years old and we still have 4 years together.. Maybe she meets someone else ? Well, 90% shek nows that i like her, so if she chosed another one means that she dont like me.. and the problem is finished.. I wont give her chance to think that i just forgot her, i will just like hang her for like 3 years lol what should i do !!!

yup, i would prefer this.. Good luck for me

yea, i would like have fun together, talk together and stuff.. Damn i really dont have the guts to tell her that i like her.. Thats why i just make signs. I wont even ask her for her phone number today

saying thanks with a smile ? well it happens to me everyday it is not a sign at all.. Like she could like u, but this is not an evidence. C how will she reacts again when u 2 meet again..

Ok here is a problem. Asking her out? In easter society, it is normal to ask a girl out, not really normal but not a very good thing to u know.. So i dont want to ask her out, i just want to let her know that ilike her and that she likes me too, till we marry

yeah i think she knows that i like her, but iam not sure of her feelings.. Thats why iam trying to know her feelings before i do any step... Signs of interest ? Well she is more shy with me than anybody else, if she dont like me as i said before, she wouldnt continue talking to me after i embaressed her.. If she didnt like me she would say thanks god we too hate each other and wont talk to me again.. If i hate someone i wont talk to him alot, specially if he likes me and i dont.. I dont think she just wants to know why did i change my behaviour, it is not that important thing to know.. Also we are not close friends so it doesnt reallly matters.. I will ask her for her phone number today and c how will she reacts

Hey , Shy soul , thats why i said in my first post i think she knows that i like her.. And she got used that i flirt with her and stuff... Guysssssssss Tell me what do u think where r u ?????

Hey , Shy soul , thats why i said in my first post i think she knows that i like her.. And she got used that i flirt with her and stuff... Guysssssssss Tell me what do u think where r u ?????

guys, I didnt do this plan to make her like me ... no I just did this plan to know whether she has interest or not thats all.

ok ok ... i didnt change my personality for her.. i just ignored her thats all to c her feedback.. I didnt make my self a jerk like that.. If she dont like me, she wont care about the changing in my behaviour.. Anwyays i will c what will happens next . It will have more signs

please guys tell me your opinion, dont just read and leave plz..

that post was totally un clear so i will say it again.. She used to get attention from me, even if she didnt at least i didnt ignore her that much and told her mind ur own business.. And i wasnt jerk at all i was like the king of tha place bec i always do funny jokess..

Yeah sure can be sure 100 %, Well i was all the time so confident, but it wasnt funny for sure at least for her.... Mostly want a jerk.. Yeah she got used to get attention from me.. At least i dont ignore her that much.. So i would keep like making her come and tell me i like u lol

yeah exactly that what i wanted to do.. Make my self as a catch So where r u guys????? I need your opinions !!!!

hey , Rejection doesnt happen that easily, if 2 really like each other that is something different... I think she just wanted a friend, bec if she loved u she wouldnt go away that fast.. Maybe she wanted that other guy too as a friend.. If u like her try to make signs for ur feelings Goodluck

hi guys, Remember when i told u abut the girl i dont know her feelings ??? well i did a plan I planned something which could help me know her feelings... OK now c what was the plan i did.. I had that lesson with her & some other ppl.. Plan 1) doing series of actions, then wait for feedback 2) actions should have significant feedbacks, to be analyzed easily 3) looking for positive or negative feedbacks. Here is the basic idea of the plan.. I will totally ignore her, talk to other girls, be a very confident man, no eyee contact with her, making jokes while putting her beside and just do what i do as if she is not their .... So why do i do this ? Bec if she likes me, she would be nervous, angry and to some degree try to talk to me. If she likes me, that would appear on her behaviour... I did what i just told u with her. Even someone asked me for a cup of water, so she said: dont give it to him( joking) ..... I told her: mind your business all ppl like ooooo. lol So about what she did. First of all i would like to ssay that i mostly think that she know that i like her. Her behaviour was as follows: 1) She started to think in her head, (not concentrating at all ) she just stares on anything.. i dont remember the word used for this 2) She started to look at me more. 3) After i told her mind ur own business, she tried to talk to me again.. So, if she dont like me, she wouldnt look sad but would like ohh thank god we two hate each other... Or like if she knows me as a friend she would just think of it as a joke.... Also why did she started to look at me more with all of this ignoring ? Well the feedbacks mostly could be felt, i just wrote what i can ... What do u think does she like me ??

well yeah exactly, these body language stuff apply mostly on perfect situations for ppl whho are not shy. It needs alot of conditions to see this signs. Here is another important question : When a girl knows that someone love her and she dont love him, Would she try to get away from him and act negatively towards him to say that she dont want him.. Becasue i think the girl i love, must have known by now that i like her, and she laughts with me, talks noramally and even get her tongue out for me (teasing me ) anyways what i mean that when the girl knows that u love her, her behaviour changes towards u .. If she is interested her behaviour will be mostly positive and if not she will try not to laught with u, not to have fun with u, not to smile. But she wont act normally.. What is uur opinion ?

Could Nervousness or shyness effect the body language.For example. When she looks to u and make eye contact means that she likes you, but when she is nervous around u and shy i dont think she will make any eyecontact. At least for me, i dont do eye contact with the girl i love And alot more. I think these body language signs are a little bit confusing .. Am i right ?

HEY GUYS I DID THAT TODAY, I WAS THE GREAT CATCH. IT WORKED I HAD A LOT OF CONFIDENCE AND SHE STARTED TO PAY ATTENTION TO ME MORE AND FEEL SHY AND STUFF LIKE THAT GREAT POST !!!!

Someone in the previous topics, wrote a very nice post which i thought u must c it, TELL ME YOUR OPINION ABOUT THIS Being a Casa Nova or a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing at each other for you. A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. This must be stated because it brings us to the subject of 'desperation'. In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn't be looking for tips and answers if we did not desire a girlfriend or MULTIPLE girlfriends-(being a bit ambitious, aren't we?) We all want a woman (or women ), but our desire and feelings brings out the desperation traits within us. Where I work, I asked the women what they found as desperation in a co-worker. Here are some of their answers: --always giving the women attention. --calling all the time (and immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, being at her beck and call, etc.) --taking every opportunity to talk to them and telling them everything about yourself right away. --always available. --NEVER willing to walk away-(NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS suppli- cating). --etc. What theme can we find in the above? It is that the man puts the woman on the pedestal rather than himself. Imagine if a woman did all of the above to you. Imagine if a woman was OBSESSED with you-i.e;'Swimfan', 'Fatal Attraction'. Always available for you, and always spending her free time FOR YOU. Any initial interest you had in this woman would soon evaporate. Why? Because in your own mind you are thinking two things one else must want her," AND "If I can get her OBSESSED about me, Iknow I can get BETTER girls to be interested in me." Her desperation is turning you off, The same is true for women. Women are not attracted to desperate men...PERIOD! I've told my co-worker this and his response: "Well, that is just who I am." Eventually, he will realize that the only common denominator in his pattern of crash and burn will be HIM. So if anyone has told you that you're desperate, consider that it's true. *There is a KEY to removing desperation forever. There is no simple 'trick' that will kill desperation. It will not simply be in how you dress, talk or where you go on dates. No, the KEY is in how you think. The KEY to killing desperation (and attracting crowds of women) is to THINK and BELIEVE that you are The Great Catch. Desperate guys do not do this. They see the woman as the trophy rather than themselves. They see that the women must be 'wooed' rather than them. They will, thus supplicate and become a 'nice guy'. (And most nice guys finish last as we all know). 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When you BELIEVE you are that prince, that you are The Great Catch, all the 'desperation' signs you were emitting vanish and an aura of attraction will surround you. Combine this manner of thinking with all the Don Juan skills you know, and you will become irresistible. *Remember these signs of desperation? --always giving the woman/women attention. Now that you're The Prince, you don't have time to give women attention. A Prince is kind, ENTHUSIASTIC, smiling, yet YOU have things to do. A Prince's time is precious. A woman must win your attention; you shall NOT 'give' it to them. --calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc. The Great Catch simply CANNOT call all the time because he hsa tons of other numbers. The Great Catch is not competing for a particular girl. The girls, rather, are competing for him. --taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself). 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Good carriage, excellent threads, are the CONSEQUENCE by how you think ofyourself. Women know this and is the reason why you are judged by this criteria. =Humor Girls LOVE humor. Prince Charming and The Great Catch are funny because they know that they, themselves, are fun. They don't worry, "My Goodness, she is really cute! How Can I attract her!?" They ASSUME she will be attracted and they will have fun in the meantime. Don't be shy. Let your personality SHINE! When you think you are The Great Catch, this should come more naturally because you have nothing to fear. =Dominance*** YOU are THE MAN. You must be IN CHARGE. Desperate guys will try to be 'nice' in every which way to win the girl (and fail, of course). But Prince Charming and The Great Catch will SWEEP WOMEN OFF THEIR FEET. When you THINK you are the goods, you realize that it is rediculous to treat relationship and flirting as walking on eggshells. YOU set the rules, NOT the other way around. After all, You are the prize to be sought. Look at the soap operas, romance novels, etc for grounds of this. Women like to be in the presense of a MAN, not a boy, not a chump, and certainly not a 'nice guy'. It's like a choice of the Fonz or Richie Cunningham to these women. Dominance is also being sure of yourself. Do not speak in a soft tone. Speak STRONGLY and behave STRONGLY. After all, do you think Prince Charming worries about making mistakes? No, so neither should you. I kow, I know. I cna hear you saying, "But I must worry about mistakes or else I'll have another' learning experience on my hands." This is a GOOD THING. Let us say that, in a normal conversation, you came accross a word you weren't sure how to pronounce. Most people will utter the word softly for fear of criticism. This is stupid. Say the word LOUD!! Let me repeat, say the word LOUD!! If you are wrong, you will be corrected. Clearing up mistakes is always a good thing and should never be feared. The same applies with dating. Do not date with hesitation and shyness; date with conviction. Remember the biggest risk you can take in life is not to take any risks at all. =Ambition When you think of yourself as the Great Catch, you KNOW women are not the priority of your life. After all, The Great Catch knows he can get any woman whenever he wants. When you feel good about life, you cease to fear success and demand Life show all that it has. Aim for the moon. If you miss, at least you'll be among the stars. So in the end, too often men think they need a girlfriend to have their life 'complete'. The consequence is that these men will emit signs of desperation. Success is achieved first through the mind, then through the world, never the other way around. [/i]"As you think, you shall become"-POOK Do U Agree ?

well on msn i was trying to make an indirect signs that i like her and i think she undestood, after that she said ( i must like u so much ........ as above) so i thought she also said i dont like u in an indirect way too ??? or maybe she is shy i dnt know really ! but i think she knows how i feel so why is she shy if she is really shy ?

well on msn i was trying to make an indirect signs that i like her and i think she undestood, after that she said ( i must like u so much ........ as above) so i thought she also said i dont like u in an indirect way too ???

hi guyss,, As usual i still like that girl .. Sometimes she talks to me and stuff but i feel like she is a little bit shy when talking to me especially we dont know each other that good. And also iam tooo shy with girls. I dont talk alot. One time she told me hey u r an idiot( joking )didnt t give me some lectures to photocopy and stuff.. So she told me on msn ( i dint give u papers and told u that u r an idiot, i must like u so much ) That what she said exactly ! Could she do this because she is shy or what ? but i see her talks to a guy easily and i feel like she likes him or something..

hi morphin, Your question is good. Look, i think " Nothing is impposible " .. That's rile number one. Yes u can love again and again a true love.. As i said before in my previous posts the heart is not a rock. The heart changes every second. Even the rock changes by wind.. Everything could happen at anytime, anywhere who knows. Even if it is like 1 % to happen. Stick to this 1 %. Never give up.. Final thing Believe in god and yourself. i hope i answered your question.