dramagirl2

i dated older man and i don't think that is sick if you like older man do your thang. if i was you i will tell my parents and if they don't like it ol well your are at that age to decide to do what you want and you just can't let your parents live your life. i love older man you can learn alot from them.

thanks for the good advice the girls has already decide that if the other one don't go than neither will go and yes he is a deadbeat dad actually he's a holiday day dad.

stability and someone that love me for me. I know u probably say that neither one of them have stability but the one in prison we have dated before and at that time he did have stability and all, and i think that he really care about me alot. i don't know,..... i just love him so much, and it's hard to let him go

sometimes somebody can just be curious of being with someone with the same sex and that might be your problem.

My child's father and I went together for about 1 yr. We split up but as years went on, we messed around on and off for about 10 yrs. I got pregnant with my child, not knowing he had another girl pregnant at the same time I was. He denied my child and had nothing to do with the child, until I decided to get child support from him. Then the father wanted a DNA test, which proved he was the father. He also got a DNA test with the other child, which both girls (the children) are 2 weeks apart in age. As years went on, the father had me to believe that the other mother didn't want him to have anything to do with my child. Then, one day the truth came out about who didn't want my daughter around him, and it was the father, not the other girl. SO, the other girl and I decided to take it upon ourselves to let the girls spend time with each other since the father didn't want this to happen, after all they are half-sisters. Now the other girl and I are really good friends, and the grandmother on his side was close to my daughter until the grandmother found out that the other mother of the other child were friends, now the grandmother has nothing to do with my daughter, nor does she spend time with the other child. Now the father is now asking for visitation for the other child, but not mine. The other child's mom doesn't want him to see the child, so is refusing to let him see her. Now, the father has a new girlfriend and thinks the girls should be kept apart during visitations, instead of together like we had in the past. I feel the girlfriend should not be able to tell him that, as she doesn't know what the other mom and I have done and gone through to keep the girls together as sisters as much as possible. We feel that since the father only wants to come around when it suits him, that the girls honestly don't care to see him. The girls are 6 yrs old and enjoy spending time together. My daughter sees the favoritism that he has with the other girl over her, and I brought it to his attention but denies he does that. Says he loves them the same. We don't want him to keep coming in and out of their lives when it suits him, what should we do to prevent him messing up their lives by all the inconsistent behavior and denials. Are we as the mothers of the girls, doing the right thing by wanting to keep them together on visits, or ???? Any input on this would be great. thanks.

Thanks and sorry about that, Scout. I'll try to do better on the posts.

no i don't want the married guy i want my guy i know that if the married guy cheated on his wife what makes me think that he won't do me

what are you talkin about!

it's not that easy to ditch the other guy i love him and i knkow that i did cheat on him. i really don't know why the married man like me so much he did say that i always listen to him and give him the attention that his wife don't give him. he basically said that he really don't know what it is about me he just likes me a lot

i'm in a messed up situation. i have this guy who is lock up in prison and he will be home in january (not a violent crime everybody makes mistakes). but i have this married man who told me that he was in the process of getting a divorce and just last sunday he left his wife and now he ask to move in with me and i did tell him no plus i told him that he need to work it out with his wife but he tells me that he had fallen in love with me and i don't like him like that i was just lonely and needed someone to cuddle with for the time being. he don't know nothing about the man that's in prison and the man in prison i love him so much and he has a feeling that i'm messing around with someone and he barely calls me. He tells that he would only call me or write me if i write and tell him to write or call me. he feels like when he calls me that he is bothering me and i have to say i don't never show him that i miss him or i love him but i do. I'm trying to get the married man the hint that i don't want him i did tell him that he needs to go back to his wife and try to work things and that me an him can only be friend and nothing else. I can image how that lady feel knowing that her husband is messing around with someone else and i had to realize to that if i was married would i want a women to do me like this and plus i really love my man and i trying everything in my power not to lose him which i think i have but he just don't knwo how to tell me. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!