rabsy

Water lily, I don't really have the answer for you but I'd like to say there is no progress without struggle and that's in anything. You can't give in now as you have come so far. Struggle if you have to but don't give in. PS. Don't substitue memorization for learning.

Yeah man, do exactly that, face the prob head on, it's the best way. It could be a totally reasonable excuse but if it's a bogus one at least you know and can move on and she will be feeling guilty and silly. Some women like to have you guessing, get it out of her and she can play no more games. Be very polite though Later Rabs

Don't know what to say but I hope life works out for you. Your far to young to be going through what your going through, not that anyone of any age should going through it. Bording school will be good for you. Have hope ps. I know this reply is well late. Just joined the forum

Any advice. I have lost the love of my life. We have been together just short of 4 years and the first 3 years we were in-seperable and so much i love but family problems which I always took upon my own shoulders would stress me out and I started picking arguments and getting angry with her and would say horrible things to her. Sometimes I would end the relationship in the heat of the moment but would not go through with it as I couldn't really live without her and she would beg me not to leave her. How could I do this to someone I love so much. Many times I would agree to go to anger management but it never happened. Arguments occurred more and more over trivial things and I finally pushed her to far as she ended it 2 weeks ago. My worst nightmares came true but I only had myself to blame. She says she still loves me but she says she is tired of it all and needs space and time to live her own life without me. She says we must go our separate ways and if we are meant to be will get back together, could be 1, 2 or 3 years down the line. The more I think of this the more I believe it will not happen but I have to give her the space she wants. Although she does not want anyone else she wants us both to meet other people and we will know if we are meant to be. I'm so afraid I have lost her, I had a good thing and I blew it and I would do anything to get her back but I'm totally lost. "You do not realize what you have got until it has gone" is so so true and I don't want anyone else. I wrote her a long letter outlining what I thought and how much she meant to me and how this split has woken me up and she said a lot of it was true and she has her doubts about ending it but she has to. I'm so afraid I'm going to lose her. I can't sleep, eat or motivate myself to do much. Its not the comfort zone I'm afraid of losing. Can anyone shed some light?