theghost

Hi, it's been a while since I been with a girl, I'm not ugly or anything. It's just that my ex really mess me up. Not only emotionaly, but financially too lol. Anyways, I meet this girl at school and we were at the cafeteria and I she was kinda flirting with and we were talking for about a minute or so. Well, during that minute I nearly ran out of things to say, in just that one minute. The good thing was that she had a phone call and she had to go, so she said we will talk again next time. So I figure after class I go up to her and start talking to her again, and I just don't know what to say. We pass that stage were we ask for each others favorite things like music, movie, etc. I wan't to initiate a non boring coversation. Also, note that this is college.

Thanks for your advice, I think I will get someone to go with me. Time for a new stylish look.

I go to many stores really. Like mervins, macy's, robinsons may, ROSS, and other small retail stores at malls. Also, I know I have the wear things that I like, but I need advince in particular style, because I might like them and end up with it. Just throw some ideas, nothing too crazy though.

That looks like the pants I wear, but the thing is I don't know what boot cut or lowrinse means. I knew what the words mean, but I can't picture that in a pair of pants if you get my point. I usually go to the mall/store and just pick up clothes that fit me ok. It's just that I have no idea what the more appropriate look is for my age. I know that most of you say to wear something that I like, but what if you're 30 and wearing a cap and baggy pants. In other words I entered college last year, and I still want to leave the high school style, I want to be more presentable. I hope you guys know what I mean.

well....normaly I wear normal fit jeans, not too baggy, not too tight. Then with an undershirt and a T-shirt. pretty basic. As for music I listen to just aobut anything, as long it's good.

I want to change my style or at least improve it. Ok, so I'm not the best dresser, BUT I do wear clean clothes and whatnot. I was wondering what type of pants to wear, I know it sounds stupid, but I hear that tight pants is what girls want. Personaly, I don't like wearing tight pants, I also don't like wearing baggy pants, at least not too baggy. Anyways, I'm tall so small pants don't really look right with me. Actually I really don't know because like I said before, I have trouble matching clothes and what not. Sometimes when I wear small pants (34 waist and 32 height) I'm told that I should wear baggyer pants by my friends. I'm 5' 11'' btw. I ignore what they said because most of them wear baggy pants and I should be taken girls advice and not guys. Anyways, when I do wear tight pants people tell me I'm too skinny, which I'm not, I'm 5' 11'' 183lb, I don't think that's skinny. ok, I really don't know what I just talked about, I just kept going and going. So to sum it all up, I'm looking for a new style. I'm not ugly, but not the hottest thing in the world, so I should be ok with that department. I just need a new look that's all. I know, weird post.

No, I don't know her name. I'm wondering what to actually say to her. After I get her talking a bit, I can go from there.

The note seems kinda childish, I mean do I give it to her and just leave? or wait there for her to read it? I still don't like it. I still have completely no clue how to approach her. I know that if I start a small conversation I can go on from there, but I need that jump start.

After I got rejected by a girl because she had a bf, I got over it and now I found someone that I am attracted to. The problem is that I started to take the trolley and I seen her there a few times. So, how would I go about talking to her and whatnot. Also, I seen her there about three times, that's in a month. Next time I see her I don't want to wait like another two weeks to see her. How can I approach her? I'm also a bit shy, but I will try my best with any of your advices.

Hi, I'm 5'' and 4'' in circumfrence. I want to have sex with my gf, shes been hiting me, like she would go on top of me and move her waist (very hot). I'm just worried I won't satisfy her. I've read here that here that it doesn't matter, it's how you use the penis. I want to know if girls will get pleasure out of this. I know that too small of a penis won't do anything or too big will hurt. And I think I"m below average.

Why don't you move somewhere else?

Sounds like Floridians are shallow PS:

If he is asking other girls for cybey sex, then I would call it cheating. As for him wanting sex, all guys want sex, at least most of us, but some guys also don't put that on top of their list. I think this guys JUST wants sex, and nothing more.

About the same height, but me being taller by two inches works better, that way kissing is better for both of us.

I think she meant that it also depends on the guy that has the chocolate.

I think height is way more important to a guy than a girl, but I'm 6' so I really don't have a problem with it. But I like tall girls, shorter than 6'

lol....no I don't wear tights, but thats what she said. No I don't find hairy legs sexy...where did you got that? In cunclution to everything....It's not a vs between males and females...It's more of personality VS. personality...and of course gender plays a small role in your personality. You can't say males are better...because all males are diffrent.

I herd kindney stones are worst than giving birth, but of course no one in the world can verufy that. Unless....hmmmm....

about 5-7 times a week.

Here are my responses. ~Your but is never a factor in a job interview if you are male my butt? this one should be drop from the list. ~Dry cleaners and haircutters don't rob you blind if you are male I never knew that either. ~Men never get a Period (this is something that we have to live with) Have you herd of kidney stones? ~Or PMT, PMS (cramps, mood-swings and other period related sight effects) No Coment ~Men never experience Child birth (and although this is optional, women are born with a need to reproduce) Its nature...you don't want to have a child? - Don't lay down with a guy - so simple ~All of a mans orgasms are real Blue Balls ~Men don't have to lug a handbag of useful stuff around everywhere you go and worry about your tampons falling out Condoms falling out out your pocket... ~Men don't have to worry about tampons at all ok, No coment. ~Bathroom lines are always 80% shorter for male restrooms Bathrooms are 3 times cleaner for woman, and they have more seats. ~Mens last name stays put Its tandition, but you can always go the other way around. ~Men, the garage is all yours Woman have stuff all over the place, clothe, flowers, fluffy cushions, just take our garage away. ~Women are expected to clean the house Expected...maybey. Man are expected to to yard work, paint, repair roofs. ~Women are expected to raise the children (sadly this is true) Again...yes they 'maybey' expected, but you don't have to. Times are changing, now these days, grandmas, and pops, take care of child. It all depends on the situation. ~Men get treated like royalty when they are sick No...woman get treated like queens....again it depends. ~Men can be showered and ready in 10 minutes Yes, so can woman. ~Men never get a reputation about how many times they have sex They do get a reputation. ~Women have to take care of all wedding plans Woman love to take care of wedding, what are you talking about. ~Underwear for men can be as cheap as $10 for a three pack Not boxers, they cost about $5-10 dollars each. ~Men don't have to shave below the neck Well....ok, woman don't have to either, very unsexy. ~If you're female, single and in your 40's everyone notices And guys don't get noticed? ~Alot of countries won't let women be president But what are the chances of any of us here becoming the next president? ~Men can wear a white shirt to a water park Girls can too, vey sexy. ~Middle aged, big gut? No problem if you are male What do you mean no problem? of course its a problem. ~Car mechanics tell the truth to you if you are male Take a guy with you. ~Hotwax never goes near a mans pubic area Shave instead. ~Men never have their virginity 'taken away' Well....it wouldn't sound right if I say..."Britney took my virginity" but yes we look at it a diffrent way, probably means the same tho. ~Men have the same work with more pay Depends on job, if its labor..probably men get paid more. ~Most insults like wh_re (etc) can only be used to offend women ok, this may be true, but for men also...they call each other gay, fruit, etc...(word filters) and if you say that to a woman, it really doesn't have much impack. ~Gray hair and wrinkles add character to a man Then why are all the products like Justformen, and bengay, are out there? ~If you're a man it's OK to marry a girl much younger than you if they have money Vise versa. ~If you're male people never glance at your chest when you're talking to them Come on my gf said the she was looking at my butt, and penis area... ~Men can never be too tall what about woman can never be too short? ~Men can fart and not be labelled gross by their friends Depends on you friends...all farts are gross first of all...wheter it came from a male or female. ~Men are expected to stink if they work out Hm...everys stinks after they work out. ~Women's clothes cost more Nooooooooooo! my gf get these small shirts for like $10, of course they don't cover much...as with guys..pants and shoes are expensive. And talk about choices, no wonder woman spend hours looking for clothe, they have tons to choose from. ~Men can sit with your knees apart no matter what they are wearing Goes both ways. ~Men can eat whatever they feel like and not be considered a pig I eat a lot, people call me pig...but am I a pig? no... ~Men on average have less body fat then women (less risk of cellulite) hmm....interesting... I think males and females are the same...except for child birth part, and having boobs....If I had boobs I will play with they everyday.

How can you shave your balls? When I tried it I have after burn...not very nice, so I'm traumatized now. Same with girls, when they walk, their area is not that great, especially when they had their period!

I drink about a gallon a day. Anyways, every time I visit enotalone it depresses me with all these problems, and I have a couple of my own too, girfriend status, money for college, taking care of my cusin, those are my main concerns right now...And when I visit this site...ah...I get more depress than I already am. This is gonna be my last thread at eNotAlone, maybey when I feel a lot better I will come back, couple weeks, months, years, I just can't take all of this too depressing. I heard that a college life is stressful, but I had no idea it was this stressfull. Well....feel free to reply, I will check on this topic later.

I'm already active, I already eat healthy, I workout, thats helps me relieve some stress, I think I'm under a lot of stress lately.

Well....this year I've been feeling low, and it get worst every time. I feel my body getting worm when I think of bad stuff..I some times feel dissy, I thought I could take care of it by myself, but I just need to vent a bit. I just want to know what I have. My whole body turns hot, and I may break a small sweat. mybey a midlife crisis? or earlylife crisis? So many things going on in my life.

Well...since you like games, you could also try to do other things. like work, valenteer, etc.