YummyBees Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 7 months now, and for the most part, we have been pretty great. However, as of school getting out, we haven't seen each other. We barely even text or snap. At this point I know I should initiate something, but it does concern me that she hasn't done anything. I've been much more outward in our relation so it scares me and makes me think that she might not care. I need help breaking the barrier and going strong again. What should I do? Link to comment
DanZee Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Just keep texting her every day and maybe arrange for a holiday together sometime this summer. Testing is not a good way to date. You don't know what she's doing. She could be busy. She might not be a much of a texter. She might be feeling the same way about you. Just keep the conversation going. Link to comment
SGH Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Yeah, don't go completely quiet and then wonder why she is going completely quiet. She may be done with the relationship, but you're never going to know that if you neglect the relationship completely. Link to comment
1tym Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I agree and disagree. Send a text have a conversation. Eventually itll die its course. Then I would wait to see if she would initiate. I would give her two weeks to do so (obviously you wouldnt tell her). If you don't get an initiated text in 2 weeks I would assume its done. In this case you dont even have to send her a break up text or even a face to face chat. If she comes around to mention why you have done X,Y,Z my response would be "i thought you were interested" then move on. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 7 months now, and for the most part, we have been pretty great. However, as of school getting out, we haven't seen each other. We barely even text or snap. At this point I know I should initiate something, but it does concern me that she hasn't done anything. I've been much more outward in our relation so it scares me and makes me think that she might not care. I need help breaking the barrier and going strong again. What should I do? Why is that? Link to comment
YummyBees Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 Thank you all, I will start texting more and arrange something soon. Thank you for your input. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 Is it a case of out of sight out of mind? You both sound a bit apathetic. Perhaps she's dating locally or back with her hometown bf? Was there any sort of agreement/understanding you would stay in touch during the summer vacation?MAt this point I know I should initiate something, but it does concern me that she hasn't done anything. Link to comment
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