Smokey14151 Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 So this one isn’t actually about me. My girlfriends best friend has been dating this guy for 4 months. She caught him cheating on her, but didn’t break up with him. Basically he said he wouldn’t do it again. Come to find out at work today. The girl he was cheating on came in we were talking because I knew her from class. One thing leads to another and we discover she’s having sex with my girlfriends friends boyfriend( say that 5 times fast). What I want to know is when should we tell her about it. He’s been cheating on her for the entire time they have been dating. So the hard part is prom is this weekend and we don’t want to ruin it for her. What should we do should we tell her before or after and why? Link to comment
ControlDenied Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 The more you wait the more accomplice you become. Link to comment
DanZee Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 I agree. Tell her immediately. Link to comment
chrissyh23 Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 So this one isn’t actually about me. My girlfriends best friend has been dating this guy for 4 months. She caught him cheating on her, but didn’t break up with him. Basically he said he wouldn’t do it again. Come to find out at work today. The girl he was cheating on came in we were talking because I knew her from class. One thing leads to another and we discover she’s having sex with my girlfriends friends boyfriend( say that 5 times fast). What I want to know is when should we tell her about it. He’s been cheating on her for the entire time they have been dating. So the hard part is prom is this weekend and we don’t want to ruin it for her. What should we do should we tell her before or after and why?Tell her as soon as you can. She is already going to be hurt and feel humiliated for not knowing for so long. So be honest with her as soon as possible. Maybe you guys can go out of your way to help make prom special for her or something. But don't keep her in the dark just so prom isnt ruined. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 It will ruin her a lot more once she finds out that everyone else around her knew and left her in dark to make a fool out of herself with this d bag. Tell her asap. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 Stay out of it. She already knows he's a cheater and stays with him anyway. She caught him cheating on her, but didn’t break up with him. Link to comment
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