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  1. I’d love to read an update. KM you alright?
  2. What a great question. I believe they exist. I have seen very few cases but they exist. I have wasted many years trying to achieve this with my wife but I have given up. You can not do it by yourself, 2 fully committed persons are required.
  3. You are in time now to select wisely. She seems like a recipe for divorce to me.
  4. Even though you contributed to set the stage. SHE BROKE TRUST. She should have come to you. You should not reward her for her behavior. You have, therefore you have set yourself to be disrespected again. You must command respect. My view it would be: -she changes her cell phone number - she erases him from all social media - you call him and tell him to never contacts her again - she writes him a no contact letter, you review it and you send it. She doesn’t do this, you breakup.
  5. The more you wait the more accomplice you become.
  6. You can still win Sofos! Don’t give anyone power over your own self respect. You can do it!
  7. Your relationship doesn’t have trust. Is an immature relationship. Work on yourself. He is definitively hiding things from you.
  8. Send him a text saying that you had a dream about him last night... perfect excuse to start a playful scenario
  9. Get in tune with yourself. Have fun. Do things you like. Date other people. Next time you see her, make it fun and light, laugh at yourself and do not shy away for having liked her. You are a man and that is normal.
  10. Tell him your unable to be there for him. Then find a distraction.
  11. Sadly the answer is likely yes. Leopards do not change their spots. I suggest you do spy on him very meticulously. Read Gottman, he knows what successful couples do.
  12. She seems like an attention to me. Talking to other men all day long, NOT acceptable!!! She must respect you! You must act like a man who commands respect.
  13. You have been right every step of the way since you started this thread. KM you are a real man of value. She lost a good one. She is definitely a looser.
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