Here's the situation: I have been hoping to get my ex back over 1 year, but since then he has moved on and is dating a new girl for at least 1 year. He calls me a few times a week, sending me mixed signals like being very flirty and coming on to me. I couldn't take the "ambiguity" anymore, so a few months ago, i asked him point blank if he wanted to get back together, he said "no, i'm in a serious relationship right now". This broke my heart, but it was a much needed reality slap in the face.
Fast forward 6 months, he calls me even more frequently (but he is still w/ his gf--however, i don't know how serious their relationship is since it is long distance), and now he starts to say stuff like "we should get married" "we should by a home together" "if we pool our money together, we should be able to afford this house". Is he just playing w/ my mind? or is he hinting that he wants to get back together but he doesn't have the balls to do so? So far, i am playing it cool, so when he says those comments, i shrug it off. Should i have that talk w/ him again (e.g. where do i stand talk?) I'm so confused.