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  1. I wasn't attracted to my husband for two years when we first met. Then, one night (TMI) my body said otherwise. Personality, persistence, charm, getting to see how people handle themselves in conflict can be a huge turn-on.
  2. You appreciate it! That's what you do. Appreciate that maybe your girlfriend can avoid getting assaulted, along with her friend(s) she may be with. Watch Fear the Night! My buddy is a doctor who only works here and there to maintain her license because she has 5 boys, two of whom have special needs, and the hubs can support them easily, she has a black belt, and takes two of her boys to classes. I think you should consider big picture; do you need someone you don't love, but can't fend for herself? I think you should ignore your jealous friends when they give you grief about it. My best advice would be to grow up, and value the total package. Don't listen to your dummy friends picking on you.
  3. I used to be able to watch all the scary and horror movies. But after having them, if there is any possible harm to a child in a movie, which I know is a movie, I cannot keep watching, and am sick to my stomach. I couldn't even make it past through one of my fav directors, The House That Jack Built when the scene with the kid and mom happened. But do the washing machine method. If you see something that upsets you, put on happy stuff right after.
  4. You have done nothing wrong! It just looks he's no longer into you. It's not working out. Nothing to be embarrassed by; happens to the best people. https://www.psychmechanics.com/body-language-truth-of-pointing-foot/ Sometimes people choose the be super boring route to have you break up with them, so they can avoid conflict.
  5. Are we talking 3 inches small, or 1 inch small? I've dated men 2 inches to 10 inches. Size does not matter. Caring about her pleasure, does.
  6. A person can be dressed in a paper bag, and you may still be hot for them. Honestly, you just weren't digging him period; his smell of desperation and nastiness tingled your spidy senses right away.
  7. While it's common for some victims of sexual assault to fantasies of being raped to help process the trauma to help create a positive interpretation, lots of dudes and duetters enjoy anal / rimming stimulation. Sometimes, just gently rubbing the area is enough. It may have zero to do with his abuse. Consent is key here. If you don't like butt stuff, just say it's not for you. And, have safe words.
  8. I have a friend like this too. She bad mouths my husband all the time to others as a deflection of her newly ex-husband. But in the same token, I really care about her for many reasons, so I won't bad mouth her period. I just stay polite and kind to all even when I know she's tainted people against me. Whatever. There are also common friends that moved away from her because they recognize she is toxic, and tell me without me bringing it up, because she gossiped to them about my hubs. OP, it doesn't matter if you get married and have kids; having a toxic mentality doesn't resolve itself like magic.
  9. This is pretty much what being a mom is like. Her letting you know when she's in town is a big deal, and that she wants to see you. The fact that her husband can't watch his own kid by himself is exhausting. He sounds like he makes her do everything, which is a crappy situation to be stuck in. Again, just like all your friends with kids, it's not personal. Toddlers or school aged kids can't fend for themselves. Auntie is a title reserved for non-blood related, but besties you would trust with your kids. It's not a substitute title for babysitter.
  10. You stay over her place, while he stays over at yours. Done! And she brings up the 14 yr old bit because after all this time, they have chosen NOT TO BE TOGETHER. She wants you, and chooses you. Some people know how to keep their pants on.
  11. Um, nooooo. The only thing you owe her is the truth. That you will be not be marrying her. This is it. She won't change.
  12. Narcissist are too shallow to care if you want them or not. You should have stopped at "for many years (we never met in real..." You don't need a pen pal.
  13. I almost never talk about work with friends. But, I always ask questions! You could just tell him about your day at work instead of waiting to be asked.
  14. If they think you are crazy, let the know you are going to record them doing it, and firmly say, "stop commenting on my body." Doesn't matter which gender; it's still unwelcomed harassment.
  15. Your mom and sister don't have little children; they can get a second job. You are not an atm. I would take a break from them.
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