emillyy32

We usually only go out together, almost always to restaurants, sometimes to clubs but that's with friends. We were on one vacation but with a large group of people so it was more of a group vacation, not much time for each other. I suggested a few times cinema or theater and we even went. Neither of us likes nature too much so hiking is out. We usually go to restaurants because that's what he agrees to

I just don't know anymore if this display of affection is his preference or not. I talked to our one mutual friend, she has known him longer and met his exs, from her I learned that he had no problem holding hands or kissing in public before. She herself doesn't know why he changed, he didn't tell her anything, but maybe it's because she is also my friend

Hi this may be a long confession but I need f help. I have been having more and more problems lately and don't know what to do anymore. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years, we still live apart and so far it has never bothered me, we each have jobs and our own lives, of course we also have friends in common and so far I thought I was happy. But recently I have noticed more and more things that make me wonder, and my insecurities are confirmed by my friends.I mean how we behave in public, don't get me wrong I don't like hanging on my boyfriend like a koala but sometimes I feel like we look more like friends and not a couple. I'm usually the one who grabs his hand, sometimes I only hold him by one finger because I can't grab his whole hand. He often leans away from me, we don't often hug, in photos we stand next to each other because he doesn't put his arm around my waist, I hold his shoulders most of a time, he rarely smiles and recently I have noticed that in photos together we lean away from each other. Last time we danced together we jumped more next to each other, he leaned over when I said something, but there were couples dancing with each other or holding each other close and he did nothing, only sometimes he pointed his finger at me and sang the words of the song, I didn't pay attention to it but again I have the impression that this is another time we are dancing next to each other and not with each other.Something I've been thinking about recently is his work parties. He has company parties with his boss that he never takes me to, I found out from a friend who date his work friend that a lot of girlfriends and wives go to these parties it's kind of like a banquet and there's no ban on bringing partners. The only thing I've been to with him is parties after such gatherings somewhere in a club, never official. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if he's afraid to get involved, I've tried talking to him but he doesn't see the problem. I would just like to add that I met his parents once and he met mine too, but we spent Christmas apart, some of his friends follow me on Instagram and some don't, we don't often take photos together because we rarely do them, and he doesn't use Instagram I post but not he, so I add photos where you can see him somewhere. My friends say that we rarely look like a couple, and if we do, it's like we're always angry with each other, I know nobody smiles from ear to ear, but lately I've also noticed that we're kind of artificial and for show. One last thing , sorry I still remembered this a month ago I invited his friends( I know them, we meet) on instagram, I have fallow them but they don't fallow me back. I haven't heard anything back from them for over a month and no one has said anything. I figured maybe they didn't like me. I don't know if I am analysing too much but I have been having a lot of problems lately and I have my doubts. I wonder if he's ashamed of me, I haven't given him any reason to be, and when I ask if something happened he doesn't say anything.When we go on vacation it's usually in a big group, we usually go out with friends, we rarely go just the two of us, but sometimes he stays at my house so I don't know if I'm exaggerating Has anyone had a similar situation? please help me, I feel that I am stuck and no longer know what to do, feels that we have come to a standstill and do not know how to move.