Camilla

Women lose their libido for a number of reasons. Emotions, hormones, lack of physical activity (exercise) ect...maybe she's feeling like the only thing you wanted was sex and thats in her head. We women think alot more than men! It doesn't seem you only want sex but I would day just act how you normally do, be more in touch with her sensitive side, talk it out. If you show her u care more about her than your current situation she will come around. I think bc things have shifted its got you in your head too and maybe you both need to just go to the park on a sunny day and do something relaxing together. Sometimes we woment just need more attention than other times. I think its cool that you are trying to see what you can do better to support her and understand. Dont give up!

We have been together 4 years, he is mid thirties. I def am not trying to be his therapist, I love him with all my heart & want to make sure I dont make him feel any kind of way. I think from my own perspective I can get caught up on things that feel good but then think about it later and decide maybe I don't want to do that again. I just wouldn't want him to do something that brings him guilt or shame. If that makes sense.

Shes under a hot radar now that her mom knows the truth. Have you thought about just getting a hotel room and seeing if that rekindles things. You don't have to worry about interruptions that way. Girls are more emotional about things so it may be taking her e a little longer to "get over" it.

I am a pretty open person when it comes to sex, def don't judge anything. I'm a female dating a male. I found out my boyfriend was molested when he was young by a male. He does have some stuff to work thru bc he kept it a secret. However, recently he's been making gestures towards wanting me to play with his anus. I'm totally fine with preforming whatever he wants, but I'm nervous he will be triggered. How do I approach him about having boundaries w/o making him feel as if there's something wrong with what he wants to try? I only know a little bit about what "happened" to him, ik he feels safe w/me but I do worry he will regret it later, or maybe he will love it!?