i actually would prefer to do it at his place, that way i can leave rite away. but since his parents live there to, in my culture the older generation feel it is inappropriate for a girl to go to a guys place or vice versa. i mean i don't care, but if i went over there, my mom will probably hear about it the next day, then i'll end up hearing an earful from her. so, yeah, maybe quiet coffee shop would be good. hmm...man i hate having to do this kinda stuff...