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well i'm a female lol, but your posts do help because we are all pretty much made the same. i can't wait to get over this and have orgasms again. hope you get better soon charley, what you have is nothing to play around with

On December 23rd, i got sick with the flu. i had it for 2 weeks and now i'm just battling coughing. I'm on antibiotics and cough syrup and for this past week i haven't had sex, but thursday me and my fiance did and i could not orgasm. I wanted sex, just couldnt' orgasm. We did it for like 30 minutes and i couldn't go on. We tried again later on, still no orgasm. Friday, did it two times with no orgasm. and Saturday, again, 2 times, no orgasm. I'm scared, could my robitussin be lowering my sex drive? i usually have a very high one. Could my past illness contribute to me having less testosterone or something? help

very unlikely...

well my bf can delay his, like he'll stop moving or stop stimulating. and sometimes the guy can just not be horny, or this is his second, third orgasm of the day, and maybe that night that was really short he was very horny from missing out on a week (guessing he didn't masturbate)

i used a couple but not for oral sex, i didn't care for the smell so i bet the taste isn't all that great, lol. kinda pointless for oral sex, if you ask me (i'd rather just not give oral if theres any question on stds)

well, lets just say your sex life ISN'T healthy and its not cause of you, its him. get rid of him before you find yourself with herpes or some other thing he brings home to ya

i agree with tigris, i 99% of the time get an orgasm when i'm on top (all fours) because being straight up is a killer for the legs! and go at your OWN pace. dont worry about him, when you worry you wind up doing things wrong sometimes. i've found that if i go at my own pace then bf is feeling good lol. so slow or fast, whatever gets you going is what you need to do

i hope he felt extreme guilt, when/if you told him, that you couldn't find anyone better than him.

i dont know, i agree with kitz on this one....WOW that is a hurtful response. why not go on and point out some stuff you dont like about him

i agree Ballys are you ready for a baby? did you know that u can get STD's just from being fingered and such? (not trying to scare you, just being truthful) people say they regret losing their virginity to someone they didn't love and all that, but i dont regret it all. what i do regret is losing it and then WORRYING if i had any STD's or anything because i was dumb enough to have unprotected oral sex, thinking in a very naive way that you can't catch anything from it. (i dont have any thank goodness) one of my best friends told me she caught genital warts from a guy she slept with only once. in other words i wouldn't do it if i were you at 14

i dont know, he doesn't sound so good. i understand wanting to be with his father but wow, thats a bit much and he needs to work his time in with you. and seeing as though he didn't even want to work things out and just texted you saying "Bye", seems that he really doesn't care like he should. i agree, he doesnt' need a relationship right now.

my boyfriend bought a 3 pack of trojan her pleasure condoms, and i dont think we're sure how to use them lol. that thing looked really long to me, he's about 6 inches when hard and i tried to put it on him it looked like a balloon or something (not good if you are trying to avoid condom breakage). it was like too long for him so we just switched back to the other condoms. so is this condom for bigger penises or did we use it wrong?

this is year 2006, not the caveman era. honestly reading your post made me think of that. you deserve better,he's not worth your time

i hate when people post things about how a condom can be uncomfortable. i sure bet a pregnancy and/or std would be pretty uncomfortable too!

get rid of him and see if he comes crawling back