shy2cool Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 I know that this topic has been done to death but I just can't seem to get any white girls interested in me. I am asian. I never notice any trying to flirt with me, but notice that Asians will. ](*,) Link to comment
Dr.Amore Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 Well its hard to attract a certain race you cant look at it that way. If you want something you have to go get it. Sometimes in our minds we expect things like women to come to us but in reality we have to go get it. If you want a white girl per say then go hit on a bunch im sure you will get one. Link to comment
Postive-Aura Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 what you talkin about dude, i am asian and i have dated german,french ,as wel as russian women -english american , i mean i got europe covered hehe. Be yourself ..you will get any girl you want Dont try to be something you are not ...in the sense just be friendly , people are people white black green whatever . Link to comment
RebeccaChow Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 Mmm.. I've quite alot of caucasian girlfriends who told me that they don't like asian men. Maybe that's why.. they prefer white guys. Link to comment
Jayar Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 Wite guys are generally more masculine looking, and that's what we biologically tend to go for. That being said, I've had huge crushes on Asian men, but they were like the killer-body Kung-Fu type, hahaha. I don't go for small/skinny white men either, so it isn't about race. Up until recently I've only ever been interested in white guys. That, however, is starting to change as my current interest, who is let's just say, very NOT white, is basically consuming my every thought. Link to comment
shy2cool Posted May 6, 2007 Author Share Posted May 6, 2007 Mmm.. I've quite alot of caucasian girlfriends who told me that they don't like asian men. Maybe that's why.. they prefer white guys. Thanks for the confirmation. I guess I will remain alone forever. Link to comment
Shudder Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 Mmm.. I've quite alot of caucasian girlfriends who told me that they don't like asian men. Maybe that's why.. they prefer white guys. can they speak for all caucasian women? Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 i find it easier to talk to white women than black women.......i'll attract any race......... but u dont attract a certain race, you only attract certain people.......what one white woman may like another may not Link to comment
Night Pumpkin Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 My sister is white and married an Asian man. I think what you need to do is make sure the girl you are interested in is aware that you share the same values as she does. My sister and her Asian husband may have come from different cultures, but they definitely shared the same values and ambitions in life. He approached her with a very clear plan of how they were going to build thier future together and with a vision that offered her something no other man had offered her before. If you want to be with a white girl, you will have to put in a lot of effort building a strong friendship with her. Make sure of course that you and her are on the same playing field...that you actually have potential for a future together. Link to comment
jsosk88 Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 Talk to them as you would anyone else. If they don't want to go out with you just because you're asian, they don't deserve your time. Sooner or later you'll find someone who likes you for who you are. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 most of the time you will get hit on by your race more than another one. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 Why not figure out what TYPE of woman you like instead of what race. Don't limit yourself to one race. You could be missing out on so much. Link to comment
Jay Cutler Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 What's so great about white girls, really? I'm so tired of Asians chasing after white people. You know they are not better than us, right? But eh, maybe your'e super whitewashed and would fit better with them, I don't know. Link to comment
Leonhart Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 most of the time you will get hit on by your race more than another one. It's true. I don't really understand why this is, mind you. Our DNA is almost the exact same, no matter of colour, so why humans tend to choose those that are similar in skin colour is a mystery to me. I do it too, but I'm wondering why this is. Maybe it's something about liking those who look like us? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 It's true. I don't really understand why this is, mind you. Our DNA is almost the exact same, no matter of colour, so why humans tend to choose those that are similar in skin colour is a mystery to me. I do it too, but I'm wondering why this is. Maybe it's something about liking those who look like us? well, you tend to look for the product of your surroundings. you grew up in a white family, you are more likely to look for a white mate. i think it has a lot to do with your mother. you find characteristics like her usually. if she was a great mother of course. lol Link to comment
indiegirl94 Posted May 7, 2007 Share Posted May 7, 2007 I'm a white girl who has dated/had relationships with Asian guys, so it does happen. Although if a guy made it seem like he was really into me because of my race, I'd be creeped out. Link to comment
Mavis VDSande Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 I'm a white girl who has dated/had relationships with Asian guys, so it does happen. Although if a guy made it seem like he was really into me because of my race, I'd be creeped out. Agree! I'm Chinese and growing up/dating I was NEVER interested in caucasian guys, I would go straight for Chinese/Oriental. I always planned for my love life to go that way. However by current bf (and LT one too) IS caucasian and looks-wise goes against everything I "dreamed" of before I met him. The most important thing is the person themself, regardless of race. If you pigeonhole your preference to race, who knows what great Asian/other girls are out there that could be perfect for you? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 I'm a white girl who has dated/had relationships with Asian guys, so it does happen. Although if a guy made it seem like he was really into me because of my race, I'd be creeped out. Agree! I'm Chinese and growing up/dating I was NEVER interested in caucasian guys, I would go straight for Chinese/Oriental. I always planned for my love life to go that way. However by current bf (and LT one too) IS caucasian and looks-wise goes against everything I "dreamed" of before I met him. The most important thing is the person themself, regardless of race. If you pigeonhole your preference to race, who knows what great Asian/other girls are out there that could be perfect for you? i'm saying subconsciously most people go for their own race. MOST, not all. Link to comment
Altruist Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 Shy2cool, is it one particular white girl or just white girls in general that you want? I'd be worried if it was just white girls in general. I'd be led to think that you are ashamed of yourself and your own race. There's nothing wrong with dating other races but you've got to be proud of who you are. Link to comment
Raincheck Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Wite guys are generally more masculine looking, and that's what we biologically tend to go for. What a load of crap. lol White men are not genetically more masculine looking then a black man or a hispanic man or an Asian man. Every man is different. Sure, some are more likely to gain certain physical traits more often because of their background, but in general its much more about how you carry yourself and ALLOW people to see you. The reason why white women might go for white men, is the fact that we are generally, I SAID GENERALLY, attracted more to our own race. Think about it...usually, a hispanic person will identify WAY BETTER with another hispanic person and vice versa for every other race. Its comforting and of course, alot of the times the attraction comes from the fact that we grew up around the race and judge alot of the standards of beauty by it. Personally, I've dated white women, but I am latin and I love latin women. I just find them to have so much more spice and be more "women" like...white women are too brainwashed with this feminism bull, latin women seem to hold on to their natural instincts and still remain independent and powerful females....that, and I really like my lady to know how to dance well. Link to comment
Leonhart Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I want to attract white girls too... but no luck so far. Except among the ones I have no interest in. Link to comment
shy2cool Posted May 11, 2007 Author Share Posted May 11, 2007 Asian girls do not appeal to me in that way. I am not blind, and do notice some very good looking Asian girls. I should really say that I PREFER caucasian girls. To throw more wood on the fire, one of the girls that I fancy at work is Spanish. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 go to a country bar. im sorry but that made me laugh -- Link to comment
rainyday Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 just get buff, and a huge * * * tattoo on back. problem solved. Link to comment
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