When I was in my first relationship, I put up with a lot more than I should have.
The guy was so timid. He was afraid of kissing. We got to the point where closed-mouth kisses were okay, but anything more than that he'd panic and pull away. I'd have to talk him down until he felt okay with it. We made out maybe 3 times over several months. But despite that, he told me that we'd been going out long enough, and now I owed him sex. Um...no. I broke up with him shortly after that.
He was also rude to me and my friends. He called me fat all the time and told me what I could and couldn't eat (protip: Want to have sex with a girl? Don't call her fat. )
Yeah, that was definitely a learning experience!
