sunday13 Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 All these posts here are like, "if he broke up with you and he has someone else, don't worry, he's just on the rebound!" Well... what if I was the rebound? My ex broke up with his gf of 3 years last April. We began dating in June, became official in July. He made it clear he did not want to be with his ex. (She did the whole begging, pleading thing...) But, in the beginning, he would call me her name. He did it twice and felt like a first class idiot when he did. We would run into her when we would go out and she finally came up to say hello. Now that we are broken up, I wonder if I was the rebound. He hasn't talked to her that I know of since we broke up, and his friends all tell me I wasn't a rebound. For me, a rebound would be more of a fling or non-commital makeout buddy or something... not a new relationship. He even admitted to his friends and me that his previous gf was more convenient than anything else. He cares about her, I am sure, but doesn't want to be with her again. The other night he called and we talked for half an hour... joked around like we used to, didn't really talk about our relationship other than him saying for me to be careful. It was our first real conversation in 2 months. Then yesterday he text me an inside joke from the night before. If I was the rebound, would he still try to get in touch? Link to comment
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