Is this general statement true about women?

[drum4god]

Women love to be dominated in bed. If you ask what she would like to do, rather than just go ahead and do it, she wont be as turned on, and may even lose interest in you. So in short, you take what you want, you don't ask for her input. Anyone else found this to be the case?

[southerngirl]

Depends on the girl. Some girls prefer to be in control ....

 

some girls are more submissive. Personally for me? I like to give and take.

[barbielovesmac]

In some cases I like control and in some cases I do not. Just depnds on my mood or how I'd like to feel.

[freedom]

"In some cases I like control and in some cases I do not. Just depnds on my mood or how I'd like to feel"

 

Shivers.. a typical answer from a women!!!!!

basically.. read my mind and my mood....

Learn ESP!!

Be scared... Be afraid... be very afraid.

 

It can swing either way mate. 50/50 chance.

[DropToZero]

I'm a guy, but I think it's a 50/50 thing too. In most sense though, the guy is *supposed* to be in control, it's not just the idea of being in control though...so much as it is the idea of being wanted. Everyone wants to feel wanted, so this goes a little beyond domination, because...damn...when my girl jumps me, it's probably more of a turn on than anything knowing she wants to go at it that badly and wants me. I'm sure I could make a safe assumption that's how women feel sometimes too...of course depeneding on their mood haha

[luvursmile]

I like being dominated...sometimes.

[RayKay]

Hmm, I like being dominated SOMETIMES, other times I like taking the reigns....

 

Sex is really individual and particular to a person/couple, and I think the dynamic varies from couple to couple. It really is something they need to work out with themselves, by being open and sharing their likes, dislikes, turn ons and so on.

 

I would say that being ASKED what I would like to do in the moment does take away the spontaneity, so it is good to talk to your partner beforehand, and also be in tune to their reactions in the moment to particular things.

[luvursmile]

I agree. I dont like to be asked. Like if a guy says "Can I kiss you?" I hate that, its like dude, just go for it.

[joiseygrl]

I like to be dominated. I have a very outgoing, take charge kind of personallity outside of the bedroom. When it comes to sex, I'm a sub. In the past, I have been the aggressive one sexually, but once I experienced being at a man's mercy I realized how much I enjoyed it.

 

It really depends on the woman. The same could be said about guys. Most guys I've met would love it if a woman just started tearing at his clothes and demanded sex. Personally, I'd beg for a spanking

[agent1607307371]

I like to dominate. If I was in bed with someone who just went ahead and did what they wanted, I would treat it as an attempted rape and break some bones...

 

My rule is, if you can't discuss sex with a partner, you shouldn't be having sex with them.

[chai714]

Women love to be dominated in bed. If you ask what she would like to do, rather than just go ahead and do it, she wont be as turned on, and may even lose interest in you. So in short, you take what you want, you don't ask for her input. Anyone else found this to be the case?

 

Like others stated, it depends on the type of woman you choose. Generally speaking, I choose women who tend to be more submissive so they enjoy being dominated. Not every woman is the same though. I've been with some who enjoy taking control, which can be accomplished in many ways. It just depends on the woman, really.

[Beec]

I think as a guy you need to know how to take a little bit at a time, see how she reacts, back off, see how she reacts, take some more, see how she reacts. Over time, you should get to know her and what she likes.

[NeverMore]

General statements like that are usually "untrue" based on the fact that there are always exceptions. And most people (not just most women) like variety in the bedroom, so even if a woman likes being dominated, every once in a while she might also want to be in control. I know this sounds confsing, but are you with me here?

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

A load of rubbish, why not show healthy assertion and find out for yourself?

 

Generalizations like that make innocents like me weep. I kid thee not.

[Aida2]

You can be on top, i like to hold onto the bed sheets

[quietgrl]

I want to be on top one day

[Deviant_Kate]

Women love to be dominated in bed. If you ask what she would like to do, rather than just go ahead and do it, she wont be as turned on, and may even lose interest in you. So in short, you take what you want, you don't ask for her input. Anyone else found this to be the case?

 

Like you said, it's a generalization. Doesn't cover everyone, and maybe not even most. It's a person to person thing.

[snowgirl]

"In some cases I like control and in some cases I do not. Just depnds on my mood or how I'd like to feel"

 

Shivers.. a typical answer from a women!!!!!

basically.. read my mind and my mood....

Learn ESP!!

Be scared... Be afraid... be very afraid.

 

It can swing either way mate. 50/50 chance.

Hostile much? What's up with that? God.

 

Women are not cut from a mold. We're not all the same. You can't pin one behavior on all of us. And we do not expect you to read our minds unless we lack maturity.

[Day_Walker]

I would say that it is a generalization and I am happy that it is because the whole submissive thing gets old after a while. A mature woman would be versed in being submissive and dominant as it is called for.

[Slacker]

I find most women, most of the time * like to be dominated. Some women get physically exhausted holding themselves into various positions during sex, some women feel insecure about thier appeareance, some women are just lazy.

 

There are a whole host of things we are usually expected to do as men-

either man up, and enjoy being the initiator and dominator night after night.

Or find one of the many awesome women out there who will truly meet you half way.

 

*this is based on my personal experiences, there are vast exceptions as with any generalization.

[oh yeah]

i'm a woman and i believe this to be true. i'd much rather be dominated in bed. about loosing interest if i'm not dominated - no not really, i just am MORE interested when dominated

[Lboogie23]

I'm a women and i generally like to be dominated in bed. I like when my bf gets a little rough and demanding. Sometimes i like to blow his mind and be the aggressor.