SaRaHmArIe8588 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I didnt want to talk to my friends about this because im a little embarrassed to talk about it since i dont know if its normal or not. My boyfriend told me the other day that before we had sex, he would practice on his pillow(since he was a virgin). I thought he was joking but he made it clear that he was serious. I'm a little weirded out by this, he was pretending to be having sex with a pillow? I dont get the pleasure or how it could be helpful. Can anyone relate or do you find this odd too? Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Yeah, that would be TMI for me, and also, eeewww. Don't you want him to get a different pillow now? I mean do you sleep over there? Put your head on it? Link to comment
BrokenWingedFaery Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Alot of guys do this, at least, the ones I've been with. But grrly, BYOP... Link to comment
bhzmafia Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 ive done it, not for pleasure, but more to see what its like (muscle wise) to have sex... I wouldnt worry to much about it, hes just trying to please you =) Link to comment
OceanEyes Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 That mental picture is absolutely hilarious. Link to comment
Fisch Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 LOL I am a guy and I have never heard of that one, but it certainly is not unreasonable. Come now everyone does silly things when they are sexually curious some people are just more creative. Link to comment
doyathink Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 My Humps...My Humps....My humps my pillow! (no, never heard of that and I wouldn't want to use any of his pillows) Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Can't say as I have ever heard of that before. Would be kind of weird in a way it seems to me. But I guess to each his own as far as experimenting and seeing what its like. I suppose it was his way of masturbating. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I would say its pretty common when a boy is in the experimentation stage. Pretty much anything which can create a whole will be used, ive heard of couch coushins, pillows, shampoo bottles, even vegetables with holes in them. Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Well, that is a little different, but I guess its alright, as long as the pillow doesn't cum between the two of you. Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 It's not THAT strange really.....we all act strange when young and curious. Link to comment
dontwantthis Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Just be greatful how open and honest and comfortable he is in your relationship that he would actually tell you that! Dont be weirded out by it. It was just a pillow.....not like it was a stuffed animal or a doll.... Link to comment
SarahRose Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Actually I think it is sweet. I remember as a teen practicing kissing with my pillow. Link to comment
melrich Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 Well, that is a little different, but I guess its alright, as long as the pillow doesn't cum between the two of you. LOL. What your b/f did/does is pretty normal. Teenage boys will use anything they think may add to the mastubating experience. Link to comment
bebecole Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 That mental picture is absolutely hilarious. LMAO!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I didnt want to talk to my friends about this because im a little embarrassed to talk about it since i dont know if its normal or not. My boyfriend told me the other day that before we had sex, he would practice on his pillow(since he was a virgin). I thought he was joking but he made it clear that he was serious. I'm a little weirded out by this, he was pretending to be having sex with a pillow? I dont get the pleasure or how it could be helpful. Can anyone relate or do you find this odd too? Hmmm? Being a female, you should seriously try humping a pillow, try a pillow that is not too soft. Then tell us how weird and good it is to hump a pillow Link to comment
doyathink Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 I wouldn't say that's very unusual... I've heard of girls who have used pillows to practice as well. Well, I guess not! I've seen horny dogs do it too!!! Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 I've never heard of girls using pillows? Isn't it too soft to actually stimulate well enough? I daresay it would take me a lifetime to get off on that. Link to comment
BrokenWingedFaery Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 A FIRM pillow is soooooooooooooooo good. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Hey, he is a nice positive, loving, respecting, caring boy, he does not want to practice on you. He also trusts you a lot, please be so kind and feel honored and do not worry about it. Many men will never dare to talk about what they tried in their youth. Link to comment
babypink61 Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 um, this is def the first time i've heard of this! lol although it is kind of weird, I'd think it could also be a bit endearing cuz he wants to make sure that he's prepared!!! but it's def TMI!! Link to comment
RayKay Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Meh, whatever works for him. I don't find it any odder than other ways people find to masturbate. It's not like he used YOUR pillow! And it used to be common for girls to "practice kissing" their pillows or hands.....that was the stuff of sleepovers! I have heard of far stranger things being used...like various produce, gloves/mitts, etc....the pillow is already there when he is in bed, why not I guess. Link to comment
PRSOV Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Ok, I'm dumbfounded! How do you have sex with a pillow? Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 I guess others must do that, but I am absolutely certain, that I never 'practised' anything (kissing, sex, whatever), with anything, well, unless it was practising with a guy... Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Ok, I'm dumbfounded! How do you have sex with a pillow? Most men in the US are circumcised, thus it should work. There are advantages and disadvantages. Link to comment
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