Ex is running a smear campaign against me

[coolio]

I have been separated from my ex for 1 year. In the end she was showing me signs of not being particularly stable, and was becoming very confrontational. I ended things, but she wouldn't eave me alone for months. Sometimes just turning u in my bedroom in the middle of the night. Sometimes calling drunk, crying, and telling me she was going to drive to my house. One time she looked up and matched with my ex wife on tinder (who's is into women) and went on dates with her to make me hurt. Yeah pretty nuts huh.

Anyway, recently I started seeing someone else, and she has been trying her hardest to make my life hell. She has started to spread really personal things about me, some truths, but with a whole lot of untruths mixed together that paint me out as a quote "a psychopath" "toxic" "a stalker" "that she is scared that i know where she lives" etc etc.

Thankfully most people in our town know me, and know that it doesn't add up, and that she's full of it. But the fact is she has denied saying a lot of this stuff, and the gullible part of me even started to believe her.

Anyway, now I have concrete proof of what she has been saying. Yet she still denies it, and claims to always have my back and would never say anything bad about me etc etc. 

My question is.. what is her game here? She pretends to be caring, asking how I'm going, hopes I'm doing ok etc. But in reality is telling everyone I'm a psychopath?? I don't understand her end game??

[Seraphim]

Never try to understand crazy just don’t engage it . 

[boltnrun]

Why do you continue to engage with her?

Does she have any reason to think you still want to be with her?

[gamon]

Lock your doors.

[melancholy123]

Change your phone number and door locks.  Get a restraining order if she keeps coming to your house.  Do not talk to her.

She's got some real issues that you cant fix.  You need to hold your head high, rise above her nonsense, and carry on with your life.

[SooSad33]

3 hours ago, coolio said:

recently I started seeing someone else, and she has been trying her hardest to make my life hell. She has started to spread really personal things about me, some truths, but with a whole lot of untruths mixed together that paint me out as a quote "a psychopath" "toxic" "a stalker" "that she is scared that i know where she lives" etc etc.

She is turning this all onto you- when it's really her.

You can turn any proof into police and she can be warned. slander, threats, etc?

3 hours ago, coolio said:

My question is.. what is her game here? She pretends to be caring, asking how I'm going, hopes I'm doing ok etc.

Why are you even still dealing with her at all??

You steer clear now - forever!  SHE is the toxic one and yes, lock your doors.. She is haunting you - all very disturbing behaviour.  I feel for you.

Someone like this should be put away.. and/or be analyzed, medicated etc.

 

[MissCanuck]

You'll never be able to understand her "game", because you aren't mentally unstable the way she appears to be. 

Report her to authorities if she keeps it up. Do not engage with her whatsoever. 

[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, coolio said:

, recently I started seeing someone else, and she has been trying her hardest to make my life hell. 

You need to delete and block all these angry exes and women from ALL your social media and messaging apps.

Either it's a remarkable coincidence or you're paranoid or you just make people angry. You decide.