Mum24 Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 Hi I was in a relationship for 7years.Now I am not happy with this relationship and it is toxic for me.i wanted to breakup.But my boyfriend is not breaking up with me.He is telling is can not be a cause of breakup,If I want to breakup I have to also give him something,He is giving me some conditions but I told that I don't any conditions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 What does he expect you to give him? And you can break up with him anytime you want. It's your choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 Don't allow your boyfriend to ever tell you what to do! Break up and go your separate ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limichelle Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 Break up and block him on everything! You don’t have to give him anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted June 27, 2020 Share Posted June 27, 2020 If are not married you can split assets, figure out child support and visitation. No one can extort you into staying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 He cannot force you to stay. You have every right to leave ANY relationship at any time you wish to. What exactly does he want you to give him? Is he threatening you?? If so, you need to report him, get an AVO. Ask your parents for help etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Just pack your stuff and leave. Block and delete him. He cant prevent you from leaving, you don't have to give him anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mum24 Posted June 28, 2020 Author Share Posted June 28, 2020 He is suicidal also,what can I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 He is suicidal also,what can I do? Contact his family. You are not equipped to deal with this, and you should not allow someone to manipulate you into sticking around. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Typical abusers ploy. Read up on that. If he threatens call emergency services. He is suicidal also,what can I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 Typical abusers ploy. Read up on that. If he threatens call emergency services. Yes. Also, contact emergency services. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 No one can hold you hostage or against your will. You need to call the police.my boyfriend is not breaking up with me.He is telling is can not be a cause of breakup,If I want to breakup I have to also give him something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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