Resrod Posted October 20, 2019 Share Posted October 20, 2019 We broke up mutually six months ago. She started to distance herself and left no other choice but to part ways at that time. I couldn't see any other way. I was constantly trying to make things work. We have been in touch on and off over the past six months. At the beginning of the break up I asked to meet and talk, try again etc and was always met with a polite no. She would then ignore me, sometimes for a couple of months until one of us would reinstate contact. About a month ago we got chatting again, and this time it was different she was asking me a lot of questions and she seemed interested in what I had been up to. We got talking about the break up and I told how much I wish I could of done things different. She told me she was very hurt and upset at the end and couldn't go through that again. She asked me if I was wanting to try again. I told her I'd like to meet up and I asked her out and to come and meet me. She told me she was confused about everything and was unsure about meeting up.. I told her that was okand to have a think. She told me she would and get back time that day. She did and told me she didn't know, that she's confused and that she will know when she knows. But we can still chat. So after two weeks of chatting, her taking hours to reply even though she would be online and me making most of the conversation, she started to eventually become more warm to conversation instead of short cold answers she did at the beginning. During conversation I jokingly said about meeting up, it had been over two weeks and no mention from her about seeing me. So I jokingly mentioned it. She told me that we'd talked about this and that she is still not sure. She immediately went back to being cold again. I told her I understand that it has to feel right. Two days later she replied agreeing....so I replied to her and she has deliberately ignored me ever since. For two weeks now she hasn't replied. My message is left un read. I haven't attempted to contact again, Since this but I'm so confused now as to where to go from here. I know many will say to move on but I love her loads and I'm struggling to understand what is going on. What do I do? What is she being like this? Any help,would be much appreciated. Link to comment
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