BoroGuy40 Posted April 22, 2019 Share Posted April 22, 2019 Why and who invented dating and why though? You may be thinking why I have mentioned this is because of the following: I can't strike a conversation (meaningful or funny) at all. It proves that I can never and never will be in a position like people who have been successful in dating. With the timescales in the 1 relationship (July 1997 - June 1998) and the 2 flings (January 2003 for 1 week and September 2008 for 6 weeks) it clearly shows that I am clearly and seriously no good at all to women. I can understand the frustrations that most women have when it comes to dating and have seen how they come across on the likes of POF, Tinder and others but it doesn't help me with the problem I have, it just makes me want to avoid them and I know that all women are not nasty. It's right what you said it has got something to do with the way that society has been and is going on but it's those innocent ones who suffer. I would never go on a date because the conversation on my side would be dead and that definitely will ruin it and it wouldn't be fair. When my family's dog was around, I used to get looks from women as having a dog is usually an icebreaker but I couldn't find a way to look back, even when they stroked him I would find it hard to say something, so really I just don't know why I am really here for if I can't do the simplest thing (to talk to women with ease). I am surprised that those who I have had nights out with are still talking to me after the times when I have walked away and gone home due to not being able to talk to women. This is down to the relationship that I had 20 years ago, the girl who I was with was nasty, she was a , she wanted her own way all the time, something had to give back then. This has ruined me, I have tried to rectify it and move on but I can't. I am literally no good in doing this. With this being the way it has been, I would never go on a date because I have got nothing good to say. Also, it wouldn't be fair on the woman. But why is it so hard and silly? So single life will be continuing for me because I can't do it, sounds sad but that's the gravity of the situation. Link to comment
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