My bf broke up with me over this...

[itsallgrand]

There seems to be a theme of you enjoying and encouraging inappropriate attention from older men.

Why is that?

The problem isn't your boyfriend, though he is an ass with some controlling tendencies. The real issue, as I see it, is that you are starting out your dating life with some unhealthy bent ideas about men and women. I repeat what I said in your other thread, a grown older man with a good head on his shoulders is not going to be cool with a dynamic where you are both behaving as kids. A 25 year old hanging around at your folks house like he's 15 is downright weird, but you are asking for this dynamic. Same with your trainer, it's weird and yet you are seeking out this creepy little girl/old guy vibe.

 

Work on that and the rest will clear itself up. But I imagine there will be some more stories and guys before then. Stay safe .

[Wiseman2]

My waitress calls me "honey". Hope that doesn't warrant confiscating and examining my phone 😋. But then again this guy thinks he's "king".

Your trainer calls you babygirl? I don't call my clients babygirl.

[mustlovedogs]

My waitress calls me "honey". Hope that doesn't warrant confiscating and examining my phone [emoji39]. But then again this guy thinks he's "king".

 

But does your waitress IM you and comment on your stuff frequently?

[RayofLighten]

Your bf is an ass. I couldn't live with a man that doesn't trust me and goes snooping through my phone like a dimented lunatic. You're crazy if you stay with him.