Hellobeautiful Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Me and my boyfriend have been together over 6 years, we have had our ups and downs but it seems more down than up these days. I recently had a procedure done where I wasn’t allowed to have sex for 3 weeks. Naturally I was nervous and not excited about getting back into it, especially because we already struggle in the bedroom as it is. Long story short, he was trying to enter from behind and missed twice. So I pushed him back (not hard) with my hand at his pelvic area because I had intended to switch positions or re adjust. He must of thought I was pushing him away I suppose because I was mad? His third attempt was a forced slam to try and enter me, which he of course missed again and thank god because he very well could have done some damage. That was the end of that. Is this a deal breaker? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 If any dude tried to slam himself into me in the manner you described, they wouldn't be welcome near me again. But I have a feeling your relationship has a lot more problems than this specific incident. Correct? Link to comment
DanZee Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 He's not a very romantic or caring lover. It sounds like he only cares about himself. You said you're having problems with your relationship. It would be a deal breaker when combined with other things. It may be time to break up and find a new boyfriend. Link to comment
thorough Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 He does sound uncaring. If you are uncomfortable, he should stop or at least do his best to be gentle. Do you really want a guy who doesn't care about your feelings or physical well being? Link to comment
thealchemist Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Sounds like a selfish @ss. After my wife had our kids it took several attempts at sex and a good hour plus each attempt to even try to enter. I wanted to pull my hair out and smash my face into the wall. But I would never have intentionally tried to hurt her like that, or be so selfish as to not care about her pain. I would worry that such selfishness and disregard for your wellbeing affects more than just this one instance. You can't be that much of an @sshole and it not be evident elsewhere. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 If you are not ready just say so. He sounds insensitive and selfish.Me and my boyfriend have been together over 6 years. I recently had a procedure done where I wasn’t allowed to have sex for 3 weeks. he of course missed again and thank god because he very well could have done some damage. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Could have damaged himself also, a fractured penis is a real condition. Link to comment
j.man Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Pushed back how? With your ass? Did you use your words? Were you two drunk? Depending how it went, situation could be rapey or just sloppy. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Is this a deal breaker? How would we know what your limits are? Is it a deal breaker for You? If nothing else both your actions are definitely a mood breaker. Link to comment
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