James1982 Posted January 30, 2018 Share Posted January 30, 2018 Hi thought I would post as I am really struggling I just can’t shake these thoughts which are consuming me every minute of the day!! Even when I woke up during the night - it hits me again. I’m 2 months in from my breakup from a 2 year relationship and devastated more than ever We split up after my girlfriend moved out of my place after a row She never messaged me again - she is the most stubborn person I have ever met. I reached out after 2 weeks and took her out to a concert and had a great evening... the things she said I thought we were back on The next day was also great... however the day after, I didn’t hear from her... more flaky behaviour Anyway to cut a long story short, I told her I had had enough of this and was going to start dating as she was just stringing me along... I was deleting her number and it was up to her then to make contact - she never did Xmas has passed, my birthday and not one message... it hurts so bad I think I’m losing my mind I’m just not sure how to get my head straight I’m now questioning everything I said and everything I have done - is it my fault? should I have not said this or been more like that? I’m not sure if I should seek some therapy or see the doctor but I am really struggling- it’s like coming off of some drug habit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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