sputnik123 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 That interview time on Friday isn't bad.. you could even have one beforehand for.. erm... Dutch courage! no, don't.. you will nail it! well done on the feedback, it all helps for future.. yes, the thoughts will come and go for a while.. it just recedes through time (also helps when others approach!) Great work on the gym buddy. Yeah, getting out and about on the weekends always helps too. Hitting the bubbles tonight? Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 Haha not tonight don't want to over bubble myself I just want it to pass. Getting impatient again. Well just gotta see what lies ahead of me Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Haha, yes, the dreaded over bubble Yes, we are in this together mate.. Both had little "set-backs" recently, but the only way is forwards! Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 Im so happy i found this site. Having others to chat to has helped amazingly, we are in this together 😁 Im actually talking to my friend about his relationship trouble and using the things inhave learned on here to guide him in what he should do. Its nice that through my own heartbreak i am able to help another person in need. Much like a lot of members on here. Helping others is a wonderful feeling Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 For sure, there is so much empathy in your posting mate. People have said I give good advice, but sometimes I don't even follow it myself! It definitely does make yourself feel good, to help others. Link to comment
dave4443 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Following your own advice is the most difficult part of this 😂 Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 Yh im kicking myself all the time not following my own advice. So how am i feeling today? Okay actually. Wrapped in my duvet after a good session at the gym with my trainer. Might go shopping in a bit or just chill and play some ps4, havent decided yet. To comfy to move at the moment. Thoughts of the ex are still there. Trying to push them out of my brain but its hard. Gotta keep at it. Gonna prepare for my phone interview. So i am fully equipped for what is to come. Link to comment
dave4443 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Glad you're feeling a bit better man. Don't try and force the thoughts away just one day they'll be less and you'll be like huh I haven't thought of her for a few hours that's weird well done for trying to stick to the gym if nothing else it'll give you confidence in the future with other women! my friend did the same thing after his breakup, got more into it and now his girlfriend is stunning and he wonders what he was ever doing with his ex so good times to come for you! Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 I do definitely feel more confident in myself. Lost 5st in total about 2 and a half since the split. Anyway. The gym high has worn off. I need to start my diet as at the moment i eat about once a day and its just crap. I know there is a correlation between diet and mood so if i eat bad i will feel bad. I would be feeling better if i didnt have so much free time. It is hard to fill it. All my friends work full time and current financial standing means i cannot start any new hobbies. I really wanna do rock climbing. Think saturday ill have a really good clean of my room. Time to throw some stuff away i think. Link to comment
Carus Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Throwing away stuff is really cleansing...Man, the stuff I found after I moved out...I found a crate with some old dial up modems from the early days of the internet. I mean, seriously..? Since then I can't even begin to explain how much stuff has gone...and there's still a little bit to go.... 'Don't want to over bubble'....Got a good laugh out of that one... You're doin' great P*....You're gonna come out of this real good.... Just don't forget me when you go shooting past me on your way out of the tunnel....I'll be in here for a little while yet* Carus* Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 Think i was about 7 when we had dial up. Just rember you couldn't use the phone and the internet at the same time. Hace come a long way since then. Im tempted to bin so much. Clothes all the crap i don't need. Im gonna put teh stuff from the ex in a box and hide it away. I read thats better because if i burned it i cant take that back but forgeting about it then finding it and throwing it away because i can id more healthy. Thanks for saying im doing great but im not sure if i am. I think of her alot, maybe to much. I just had a cry a moment ago. Not a long one maybe 3 minuets but to be honest i needed it. I put on be yourself by audioslave and the tears just came. Dont worry about me forgeting you Carus, thats not gonna happen. I not only have a great memory (bit of a hindrance at the moment) but how can i forget someone that helped me in my time of need. That goes for alot of people here and they know who they are. They will hold a place in my heart for an age. Feel like I'll be here for a little while longer as well but it will take as long as it takes. Im just taking each day at a time and being as honest with myself as I can be. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Hello Piaresssss, Yes, certain songs make we gonna go at any minute! Not just about the break up though, it's just the effect they have. I am also planning a good clear-out/ spring clean this weekend too.. Can't wait to sort my flat out. Anything sentimental from the ex just hide away in a box mate.. in time you will look at it with fondness, not hurt :) "Dont worry about me forgeting you Carus, thats not gonna happen. I not only have a great memory (bit of a hindrance at the moment) but how can i forget someone that helped me in my time of need. That goes for alot of people here and they know who they are. They will hold a place in my heart for an age." Same here buddy. Same here Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 Thats what i plan on doing with all the stuff i find. To today. I feel alot better. I have had my down moments that one would expect but other than that im feeling good. Managed to pick up an extra shift tomorrow so will have to clean my room Wednesday. Im all preped for my phone interview tonight. Hoping I smash it. This is the one I really want. Its good to be feeling better today. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 19, 2018 Share Posted January 19, 2018 That's great that you had a better day. Best of luck tonight buddy.. Nail it! Let us know afterwards how you got on Thinking of you. S x Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 So some good and bad news. The bad news first. The phone interview had to be cancelled due to the interviewer having to deal with a client. To the good news. On the strength of my first interview I have been put through to the final interview next thursday. Which is amazing. Feeling so good. Im on a high right now. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 19, 2018 Share Posted January 19, 2018 Nice one buddy! Very proud of you Now you can relax and enjoy your weekend! Any plans? Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 Nice one buddy! Very proud of you Now you can relax and enjoy your weekend! Any plans? Thanks Sputnik. Feels really good Im at work both days this weekend but im not to bothered, its something to do. Weeks packed out. Work then on two days off an interview each day they personal training the other day. See you already have your weekend plans in place Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 19, 2018 Share Posted January 19, 2018 Working is'nt too bad, as it helps keep busy and the mind occupied (and the pennies coming in!). Yes, much needed spring clean.. Clean flat, clean mind My son needs a few bits, so will take him out on Sunday! I may even have a bubble bath tonight ;p Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 Sounds like a lovley weekend. Nice and relaxing with a nice family outing. If you havent seen it I recommend going to see Paddington 2. I took my nephews and they loved it (so did i 😁 Bubbles are the only way to play my man Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 19, 2018 Share Posted January 19, 2018 Mate, goo call, we saw Paddington 2 as soon as it came out. I went with low expectations.. I was so surprised and both loved it!! He wants to see Coco next. Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 Mate, goo call, we saw Paddington 2 as soon as it came out. I went with low expectations.. I was so surprised and both loved it!! He wants to see Coco next. I am probably gonna take the nephews to that too. Bags me some good uncle points and i get to see them too. Plus i love pixar. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 Pixar is the best! Watching Up right now.. post clean up Hope you having a good day... Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 20, 2018 Author Share Posted January 20, 2018 I love up. That begining is just amazing. I actually had a good day. Played with my bros dog. Had a chat with his tenant. He is a great guy. Helped me alot when i first split. He has the view that i should go to japan as its something ill probally not do again. I told him at this point in time im firmly in the not going park. Then i went to work. The girl i flirt with was in and low an behold we start flirting again. Like i said i cannot read people very well so im not sure if she is flirting back but i enjoy it anyway so thats a positive. The flirting did get a bit sexual so i suppose she is flirting back. Im getting excited for next week and my interviews. Im gonna smash them. Then got my theory test on Wednesday. This will be the 6th time i have taken it. I missed it four times because i kept over sleeping and failed it twice once on questions and once on hazards. Im actually going to revise this time so i can pass and then take my test. Link to comment
sputnik123 Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 Hey buddy, I hope you had a good one, like yesterday Yes, as I said, a little flirting can definitely go a long way! That's fantastic news on the provisional test.. It's such a wonderful avenue that opens up when you get driving, even if you live in London. Just make sure you have gone thoroughly the accompanying materials and ask a friend or relative to test you a little on the book. Subconsciously, you will remember alot more than you may think! The hazard perception section is relatively easy mate.. you can't really click too much, so be trigger happy I'm also sure you will smash the interviews. Will keep everything crossed for you on both counts S x Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 21, 2018 Author Share Posted January 21, 2018 Yh was actually another okay day. I realised if i get this new job, tomorrow would be my last day which is a great feeling. Im thinking of her still but not as much as I was which is better. I actually have an app on my phone that im taking practice tests on. When i pass i should be driving within the month i think. Hope you had a great weekend my man Link to comment
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