safa942 Posted December 23, 2017 Share Posted December 23, 2017 we've been together for 6 months i'm tired of his: - lies, small or big ones (he hides a lot) - conflicts (this is killing, simplest example on it; don't talk to that guy anymore he has something on you, but he keeps contacting his friend who has something on him; which i dont care if he keeps talking to her; BUT WHAT IS CONFLICTED THE MOST?? is that he denies talking to her and he also lied about blocking her!!! why would he lie about that!! though he knows i have no problem of them talking together!! ) -shares a lot our details with friends to brag it (private and non-private) - acts like a hero and it all turns to be lies, he admitted them!! (i bit that guy for you, i made that girl cry for you because she mentioned you badly, i blocked all people, i have no friends!! [i dont know why he keeps denying having friends!!]) - got me evaluated since day 1 with his friends and family (though i never did it, i wanted to study him a lone with no consultation, because i wanted my decision in him 100% pure of my decisions not others, i kept him my special thing since day 1, he on the other side told everyone about everything i did to him (hang outs, pics, special moments and so on!!!)) everytime i discover something of those above mentioned i face him and tell him he keep denying like 100 times then he admit it and say "sorry i did it by stupidity, promise i won't hurt you anymore" i know with arguments things can get resolved, but our arguments??? are full of denials by him and then he admit it after i lose my mind! i'm kind of those who keep distant when mad at something, he keeps coming and blaming on me why i keep distant!!! IT'S BECAUSE I'M TIRED OF HIS LIES AND DENIALS!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanZee Posted December 23, 2017 Share Posted December 23, 2017 It's all too much. You need to find a nice guy who is honest and trustworthy. There are a lot of guys out there. Just look. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 23, 2017 Author Share Posted December 23, 2017 It's all too much. You need to find a nice guy who is honest and trustworthy. There are a lot of guys out there. Just look. I don't know what to do if love exists but trust is absent.. If I stayed with him, will it wear out gradually ? so we better break now? what about his promises to be better? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted December 23, 2017 Share Posted December 23, 2017 Don't understand why you stick around! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 23, 2017 Author Share Posted December 23, 2017 Don't understand why you stick around! because he promised and keeps saying that im his everything and he will never do all those things again!! do i have to believe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetGirl28 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 because he promised and keeps saying that im his everything and he will never do all those things again!! do i have to believe? His promises are empty words. He's desperate to keep you, and this is just another one of his lies. You aren't happy. Don't ever be afraid to let go of someone who isn't right for you . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 Of course not. How many times does he have to show you this? I don't understand why you would think the next time would be different. This is who he is. You need to wake up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 You don't need to build a 'case' against anyone in order to leave any relationship that's not working for you. Relationships are voluntary, not a sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady00 Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 The constant lies seem like the will only get harder to deal with in the future. Sometimes people stay longer than they should because they are getting something they like out of the relationship. One of the problems with staying is you will likely get more and more attached with time and it will become harder to see the relationship objectively if you can at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 What kind of lunatic thinks that biting someone "for you" is a noble act? Seriously, your guy is not right in the head. Even lying about something so bizarre would have me running the other direction. It doesn't matter if you believe him. You don't want to be there, so get walking, girl. He isn't a good boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Just Eject Random Knuckleheads Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 It's all too much. You need to find a nice guy who is honest and trustworthy. There are a lot of guys out there. Just look. can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 Just Eject Random Knuckleheads can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 Don't understand why you stick around! can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 You don't need to build a 'case' against anyone in order to leave any relationship that's not working for you. Relationships are voluntary, not a sentence. can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 His promises are empty words. He's desperate to keep you, and this is just another one of his lies. You aren't happy. Don't ever be afraid to let go of someone who isn't right for you . can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 The constant lies seem like the will only get harder to deal with in the future. Sometimes people stay longer than they should because they are getting something they like out of the relationship. One of the problems with staying is you will likely get more and more attached with time and it will become harder to see the relationship objectively if you can at all. can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safa942 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 What kind of lunatic thinks that biting someone "for you" is a noble act? Seriously, your guy is not right in the head. Even lying about something so bizarre would have me running the other direction. It doesn't matter if you believe him. You don't want to be there, so get walking, girl. He isn't a good boyfriend. can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 can i ask you to read the continued part of my problem so you can judge the complete image of the problem? please? https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=545418 Answer remains the same. I would have ditched this guy a LOOOONG time ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady00 Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 I found your other thread really hard to follow. I don't know if anyone here can help you. You seem to want people to say that you should stay with this man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted December 31, 2017 Share Posted December 31, 2017 Under review... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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